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PostPosted: Sun Dec 15, 2013 2:31 pm 
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Hey guys here's the question. Last night I was out there were 3 girls at the bar so I go open. High energy approach they were loving it they even offered to buy me drinks. Anyway I eject after a couple min. About an hour later I see my intended target on the dance floor I go up, and yell Hey Birthday Girl!! She is instantly all over me she clearly wants it all is good. We made out like animals she's got her hands up my shirt everything. However I realize her far less attractive friends are standing by themselves, and the one comes and pulls her away. I thought it was strange after I already made them all feel comfortable. I should have taken her further away from them, but I chalked it up to her friend being jealous. I got her back, but how do you guys deal with cock blocks after you've already been cool with the group?


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PostPosted: Sun Dec 15, 2013 4:09 pm 
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Excellent work! You could bring a wingman with you next time... he would keep the obstacles at bay while you do your thing with the target... the key word here is "standing by themselves" and the context is that they felt somehow responsible for not letting their friend do something she may regret the next day... sort of like a chaperone... in order not to blow it if the obstacles extract the target, get her digits or Facebook as early in the interaction as possible... once they tell her "Let's get outta here" it will be harder to get the contact info and she will be more easily influenced by the obstacles... after all, they are her long time friends, you are a charming stranger she just met...

so, don't underestimate the importance of a competent wingman... good luck!


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PostPosted: Sun Dec 15, 2013 9:35 pm 
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I agree with ^^^^!

However, it can only be young and quite immature girls who act this way. Since I am 35 (and still hanging here to give people good advice) I have realized that with age girls become more independent, their friends are not that important and they can take responsibility for their own actions. Young girls have some weird instinct of "protecting" each other and are not mature/independent enough to leave eachother alone.

If you can't find a wingman, the right way to go is to always do the group first. A couple of minutes is not enough, you need to become friend(!) with at least 3-5 people in the group (or the entire group if it is smaller), the ones closest to the target. So you need to spend at least 20 minutes with them, maybe more. But not more than an hour, unless you enjoy the conversation.

If you are approaching a 2-set without a wingman, you need to entertain both of them the whole time. You can never isolate any of them from the other. This was how I met my girlfriend btw. I seduced both her and her friend during a night out, and was able to choose which one to sleep with. ;)


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Hey guys here's the question. Last night I was out there were 3 girls at the bar so I go open. High energy approach they were loving it they even offered to buy me drinks. Anyway I eject after a couple min. About an hour later I see my intended target on the dance floor I go up, and yell Hey Birthday Girl!! She is instantly all over me she clearly wants it all is good. We made out like animals she's got her hands up my shirt everything. However I realize her far less attractive friends are standing by themselves, and the one comes and pulls her away. I thought it was strange after I already made them all feel comfortable. I should have taken her further away from them, but I chalked it up to her friend being jealous. I got her back, but how do you guys deal with cock blocks after you've already been cool with the group?

Well couple of things, you need to calibrate the level of a group, when i seduce a girl i am mainly seducing the girl, but i am also seducing the friends, you did half of the job. Second, you need to make your escalations ultra super subtle in order to protect her social proof. If her friends think you are taking advantage they will cock block so it needs to be the right balance.... Also make sure that at some point after the bubble and reaching the hook point, you get her number as insurance, or if they are gonna pull her, be comminding and say hold on a second, and get her number.

here are some more tips:

http://www.theskillsmethod.com/how-to-h ... -in-clubs/

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