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 Post subject: Where did i FUCK UP
PostPosted: Thu Dec 12, 2013 8:05 am 
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hahaha, hellooo fellas..
So I got a call a few days ago from my buddy and he asks what im doing at the moment, asks if i can pick up HB9 and take her home.. (hehehe. bad idea buddy..) I'm like yeah sure.. I actually had happened to text this girl a while ago, got her number off of instagram and we know of eachother through friends.. long time ago game wasnt tight and she to with bf, anywayy.
I show up to the house, instantly start negging, telling her we will leave when i want.. and dip.. then i get her in the car and start driving, talking.. qualifying. haha. and things are going great and i really start to get in my zone.. So she sais she wants a ride to her friends, im like aight.. so we go there and no ones home and shes like okay take me here (random other place) im like na fuck that im hungry, you like sandwiches? i do hehe.. So i took her to this awesome sandwhich shop and had her pay.. we sit down and start talking.. soon to find out she just got cheated on two nights earlier by her ex and "she's done"... i cut that convo off and start running cube game, dhv stories all the normal shit.. small kino (touches back of hand while looking away) and we leave and i start driving up the hill, shes asks where we are going i simply said "adventure" kept talking and we end up at a beautiful lake. we get up and start walking around and kino escalation is rising.. eventually we sit on a bench in the snow and shes on my lap.. this is when i start to feel a legit connection with this girl on a deeper level then the others (BIG ONEITIS MISTAKE and comment, which im not acting on) and we start just life talking blahhh,
take her to another cool lake, build more, qualify more, start talking sexually, having fun holding hands.. but it seemed as if i got close enough to kiss there was a little resistance so id back off..
then its getting kinda late so i taker her to eat again, pizza ( i paid, ehh )
then back to my house, she hops right in my bed im like fuck yea, i hop in the shower and when i get out of the shower shes outta my bed and sais shes ready to go home, god dammit, driver home get out.
kiss her, and she didnt smile or anything after so i was like thinking i fucked up somewhere. then she texts me, i call her... set up for the next day. she accepts.. next day she says shes going home early (lives outta own during the week) im like "aightt"
then calls me and sais she needs a ride back down to her home outta town, i was like im free after work and down for a little road trip (what a dumbass mistake) and i picked her up, i was two hrs late and we headed off, we are making out going down the freeway and she keeps asking me crazy life questions as i do the same, and at one point i was like "whats next in your life," and shes like "idk, i think a lot, but i like you and wanna see where this goes" or something like that haha. and then i get to her house.. meet mom and dad, idk why. she feeds me, we hang for a bit, kiss chat, and im leaving and she walks me out to my car.. she said she was gonna text me. she did and eventually the convo led up to me saying"thats cause to you think too much" and she sais "about you" and i said "then remove the problem" and she said "no."haha
then last night we finally started texting again ..i initiated and led up to telling her to come see me (which would be tonight) and she said if shes not off work too late, and before this she told me she wasnt going to be back in town this weekend and i remember when we first starting talking she said she was going to hunnington beach to see a guy..

fuarkkk. this was weird to me.. i gamed in my opinion really well on that first day. my frame was at a high set bar, and i know this girl is really attracted to me and holds me in high regard, but high enough? idk shes smokin hot and we have a great connection.. do i persist and text her soon? or freeze out and see if she hits me up?


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 Post subject: Re: Where did i FUCK UP
PostPosted: Thu Dec 12, 2013 5:57 pm 
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Hey man, some say that a girl does not see you as a boyfriend until she has slept with you... in her mind, meeting some other dude could be fair game... she could also be testing you to see how you react... cool and casual or needy AFC?

I would not bring up the topic where she is going and keep texting casual and funny over the weekend, while making plans of my own... she will wonder "is this guy into me or what? he seems unfazed by my behaviour... he's not like other guys... in a good way"...

My approach in this kind of situations is to NEVER bring up the dreaded "are we together?" topic and when they bring it up, to reply with "we are, for now, enjoying each other's company, and there's no telling where this could lead... let us take things one step at a time and use no labels and defined roles until we figure it out what we want from one another"... so far this has worked in a bulletproof way...

If you put pressure on her at this early stage, she will associate you with arguments, jealousy and possessiveness... is that what you want? so enjoy your weekend, with or without her...


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 Post subject: Re: Where did i FUCK UP
PostPosted: Thu Dec 12, 2013 6:35 pm 
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Hey man, some say that a girl does not see you as a boyfriend until she has slept with you... in her mind, meeting some other dude could be fair game... she could also be testing you to see how you react... cool and casual or needy AFC?

I would not bring up the topic where she is going and keep texting casual and funny over the weekend, while making plans of my own... she will wonder "is this guy into me or what? he seems unfazed by my behaviour... he's not like other guys... in a good way"...

My approach in this kind of situations is to NEVER bring up the dreaded "are we together?" topic and when they bring it up, to reply with "we are, for now, enjoying each other's company, and there's no telling where this could lead... let us take things one step at a time and use no labels and defined roles until we figure it out what we want from one another"... so far this has worked in a bulletproof way...

If you put pressure on her at this early stage, she will associate you with arguments, jealousy and possessiveness... is that what you want? so enjoy your weekend, with or without her...

Sounds great to me my dude!! Now here's a question, I haven't talked to her since two nights ago.. Should I be the one putting effort into just texting her and staying consistent in my time bridge or what?!


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 Post subject: Re: Where did i FUCK UP
PostPosted: Thu Dec 12, 2013 8:50 pm 
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as long as you keep it casual and funny, by all means, text her... avoid seaming like you are upset or anything... your mindset (as perceived by her) should be "it's no big deal"... if you wait for her to initiate contact, you may be surprised that she will never contact you... I did the same few months ago with a target that didn't return my phone call the same day, I just said "fuck her, there's plenty of fish in the sea" and didn't try again... ran into her in a parking lot, of all places, and she said "what happened, you didn't call, didn't text, I thought we were having a great time together"... needless to say, she now has a BF and will not go out with me... had I been less stubborn and proud, for sure we would have at least slept together...

bottom line, keep in touch, it's the best thing you can do for now, and upon her return, take her out and escalate some more... good luck!


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 Post subject: Re: Where did i FUCK UP
PostPosted: Thu Dec 12, 2013 9:21 pm 
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well she ended up texting me today lol, saying sorry she worked late and she wanted to see me when she got back from LA, which is gret lol, we texted for a bit and I kept that frame you suggested! stoked on that, she hasnt texted me back yet so ball is in her court which i hate but so far so good my dude thank you!!


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PostPosted: Sun Dec 15, 2013 8:39 pm 
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So I was texting her last Thursday (today is Sunday) and she asked if I wanted to hang when she got back and I said yes, (of course lol).. And her texts were super spaced out but anyway the last few texts looked like this.. My question is should I text her, if so what do I text her? I fuckin hate text game. Arghhhh lol

Her on Thursday :
"Hey you sorry I got off pretty late the other night. When I get back from la would you want to hang out still?"

Me:
" No problem, I had to go to the hospital anyway lol! And absolutely as long as you promise to bring a fun attitude I'm always ready!"

Her:
"Hospital??? You ok??"

Me:
"I had to take care of my buddy, he snapped his humerous when we were shredding"

Her:
"Oh wow that's horrible!! Are you at work? Any word on your car"


Me:
"I'm getting off now and heading to see what's up with it.. Fun fun. How's "days at happy ending"
(She is a massage therapist lol)

Her a few hrs later:
"Sorry I was driving...and there were no happy endings today:/
(Double text) Did u shave your chin yet"

Me:
"No you creep how did you think of that haha"



And that was it lol, she did like one of my IG uploads.. I just don't wanna be a needy bitch she has plenty of guys hitting her up she's pretty hot.. I feel like I might be different by not trying to talk to her.. Idk HELP lmao


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 Post subject: Re: Where did i FUCK UP
PostPosted: Mon Dec 16, 2013 7:34 am 
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You're doing fine. Lightly keep in touch here and there, keep it cool & casual. Schedule a meetup for when she gets back. She's into you.


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PostPosted: Mon Dec 16, 2013 5:16 pm 
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You're doing fine. Lightly keep in touch here and there, keep it cool & casual. Schedule a meetup for when she gets back. She's into you.
Yeah well i was texting her yesterday, and she started asking me boring questions, so i bailed and told her i was gonna call her later and she said kk, but when i called a few hrs later she didnt answer.. fuarkkkk


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 Post subject: Re: Where did i FUCK UP
PostPosted: Wed Dec 18, 2013 3:25 am 
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Holy fuck, shes in a relationship with a guy. Saw it on Facebook, I am a fucking idiot. I didn't fuck her when I had the chance and put myself out there too much, on top of that I thought she was "different".. ONEITIS. Lmao I'm an idiot time to GFTOW.. Wow.


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