Hey guys, I am going to keep it short. I met this girl 10 days ago at a social gathering at a restaurant. We talked for half an hour, and had great rapport. When she knew I was learning her native language in my spare time, she offered to teach me some some other time and asked me to add her on fb. I had a very busy week, so I scheduled a coffee date with her for the next week.

The date(which happened 2 days ago) was superb, as the rapport was even better, and I took her for a small walk afterwards to really nice place in the area (Arts Centre). Now this girl is going back to her country for vacation (we are both students) in 2 days, and it wont be a month before I see her again. Now I really like this girl and might want to have something with her, as she is exactly my type (She loves doing outdoor things, exploring the city..), and she is really sweet! Right before the date ended, she asked me if I wanted her to bring me anything back from her country (I took that as: "I want to see you again"). And then later on she texted me that we should visit the centre again and explore the city together after we come back from vacation!

So here is where I need help. We both thought that we wont see each other until we come back from vacation (So I wont see her again for a whole month), that was the plan, as she has an exam tomorrow, and her flight is the day after tomorrow. But I was thinking I should call her up after her exam and tell her to be ready in the evening because I am taking her out (And I would try to k-close her and maybe go all the way depending on the logistics).

The risks are that she may already have plans, or that her flight is very early in the morning, but I was thinking maybe I should make a move and have fun with her on another date, rather than sleep on it for a whole month till we come back from vacation. What do you guys think? Call her tomorrow, or wait for a whole month and then see her again?

i would take the chance, maybe because i watch alot of movies and in most of them the girl is going to another country and the boy decides to see her....but i would atlkeast call her and see, i mean is there really anything bad that can really go wrong, and even if you do mess up a month is a good enough time to apologize and be back to how yall were before she left

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

If she was the one saying that she had a lot of stuff to do before she left I wouldn't. You've had one date with this girl and are already thinking you might want a relationship, I'm not trying to be mean, I'm trying to help. Get this mentality of you liking her out of your head because you don't want oneitis and it seems you might be headed for that path. You should have tried k closing first date. I personally wouldn't call her because you don't want to seem too needy. If you text back and forth and she brings it up its a different story.

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie