I successfully used the congratulations multi liner opener and she responded:
her: omg lol
me: Haha what? (I didn't like this but couldn't think of anything else)
her: u were thinkin about me why
me: Because I was wondering who was cute and fun to talk to and you popped up in my head :p (Same story here)
her: omg shutup lol
me: What've you been up to lately?


Andddddddddddddd left on seen ever since
I never get reply most of the time anyway

have you ever heard the phrase "million dollar move, 10 cent finish" well it applies here also lol basically you did a nice opening that made her laugh that made her blush and did all this but you finished weak and missed

its hard to follow up something that nice but basically all you have to do is be interesting...(things like "how was your day" or "what you been up to recently" are bullshit small talk) you want to ask her something that will make her want to reply, if she likes something ask her "have you heard about_______" or something like that

basically say something interesting

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

I guess but it'll be harder to keep thinking on the fly, and most of the questions that are basically "why" are difficult for me to reply to

thing about texting is you have a LOOONG time to reply, 1-10 minutes is good, 10-30 minutes is ok, and 30-days is an asshole move.......if you care about this girl think about what you're going to say and think about a reply to that before you send it......im a texting genius, cause the girls down in Birmingham like to text and have phone conversation before the first date so you have to not be boring (i hate it)

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

You should bestow some knowledge upon me

its all about knowing what convos lead to another convo...not that hard mate

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

I'm still kinda young (17) and never really focused on my game cause I always got girls by having normal conversations and being straightforward

well that might still work, but just know questions like how was your day and what you been up to are boring

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

You fix your text game by first fixing yourself.

A lot of guys especially within this age of information, freebies, and shortcuts are always looking for the easy way out. They go from quick solution, to quick solution without every getting any actual results. At least not any results are carry over for more than a few moments.

If you're flopping at text game, it most likely because you are flopping at actual game. Canned openers are more of a guideline than something to copy and paste. All of you game must come from YOU at its core, otherwise the girl you talk to will be confused to who you actually are. The guy in the text, won't be the guy she meets in person. Which in itself can generate at lot of subconscious suspicion and mistrust.

When you improve your game and have options texting/calling/dating will all just sort of flow.

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I ended up chatting up my ex girlfriend who happens to have a boyfriend for over 4 months.
(Bear with me I'm working on my game)

Her:i love u really
Her: <3
Me: I'm waiting for the jk (she kept saying I love you but with jk right after)
Her: no (jk) this time
Me: ;D
Her: ;*
Me: THAT BRINGS UP A QUESTION. I DON'T REMEMBER US KISSING WHEN WE DATED. DID WE? (Middle school 3-4 years ago)
Her: no we never did u were scared lol
Me: that's funny xD After you I was never scared again o.o
Her: lol sure
Me: I'm serious
Her: ok well u can redeem your self lol
Me: When?
Her: tomorrow im serious
Me: when are you free
Her: night babde un tured' (Clearly, lol)

And that's about it. After the deal is sealed I'll add more details