Hey!
As the title says, i wonder how i become confident and confident enough to approach excatly who i want (10's and so on). What do you do? Do you have any tips?

And how do i become the alpha anywhere i go?
So, when i walk into a room people notice me and sence that i am the alpha, i steer the conversation and so on, how do i become this person?

By getting bullshit thrown at you for 5 years, constant rejection, major burns and the will to pull yourself out of the swamp on your on hair, screaming and crying during the process.

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Mindset(for newbies) -> http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pk69Qko6_lc

It does'nt have to be this extreme?
That do not sound like much fun at all

It isn't but that's pretty much the only way of becoming natural alpha. :3

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Mindset(for newbies) -> http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pk69Qko6_lc

It's true. It will take a lot of work, thinking, pushing yourself, realizing you don't need to push yourself, push some more, go on tangents, finding who you are - it's a life journey really, and experience will slowly build. I recommend you read the following books:

Models by Mark Manson
The Attraction Code by Vin DiCarlo
60 years of challenge all books

Watch a lot of shit, sprituality has helped me as well since it interests me a lot. Go out and actually approach, push further and further, you can get a lot of social experience in a small amount of time. But you have to have the willpower to do it my friend.

So i can "train" myself to become confident and alpha?
I am aware that it takes time, but i want to change, i want to be more confident, i want to know that i can appriach and get pretty much any girl i see
Is this a possible goal? Or is it out of reach?

And why do you recommend those books?

Not even the best PUAs or naturals can get any girl they see. With experience in the game you will find out that the acceptance that you cannot get every girl is one of the great paradigm shifts you will make and thus will make you more confident. You will realize you already are good with girls, just that you are not approaching enough.

The journey will take you to realizations and a deeper understanding of people and of the dating game, and the game in general. This is what will really build your confidence plus your skills and experience. Yes it is possible.

These book are great guides to help you both understand and move forward.