met a girl a few months back. Second date i was in her room but too drunk to get it in the hole. (was dark and i'm still a virgin so i don't know my way around too much)

Anyways third date she was being super flirty but refused to kiss me. Day after she friend zoned me. so i go bitch ass and message her a honest message bout how i'm a virgin and i was depressed yadda yadda. well she kept replying after that and we even hung out again. We ended up on her bed again smoking pot and i didn't make a move. We just talked alot and i would say we both opened up alot to each other. Nxt morning she messages me "Hey Yo I had a good time last night "

Same day she makes a facebook post - A picture of some guy and she puts a smiley nxt to it.
I asked her to hang out. She's to busy with school SPAM
Nxt day dif picture but same guy as her facebook status with a smiley.

see i'm ready to drop this chick. I feel i've made too many mistakes already. Contemplating on never messaging her again.

But i have to ask is it possible she's trying to tell me i have competition and i better make a fucking move.
or she's just bragging how she's with this guy. Either way it's all childish and i would like your guys thoughts on it.

help me out here keep gamin or just take my lesson and move on?

She definitely likes you! Thats for sure!
Now my question is (because i honestly cant tell) what is your intension? Do you you just want to fuck her? Or do you want her as your girlfriend? I mean have your ever showed her (with the things you say or do) what you want from her? If you havent, of course she puts you in the friendzone.
Listen...even though you´re a virgin you HAVE to make SOME move. You probably expect her to do everything because you told her about this thing. But guess what she wont! She is the girl.
I´ve been in a very very similar situation and in this situation you just have to get same massive balls and do what ever you have to do. Dont think, dont ask...

Since your in the friendzone anyway you can take your time to think about it. Freeze her out for a few days and see if she re-initiates the contact (which she will...) and arrange a date. In the meantime check out this forum for some helpful advice. And i strongly recommend you to read and USE this guide here. Its fucking gold!! :

majik-s-guide-to-kino-escalation-vt163160.html

I agree with you 100%. I was in the same situation as well. All I have to add is that when I think of getting into kino my problem is not being confident, and my kino tends to show it. It's true don't think, don't ask just go, but since I'm not naturally aggressive I need to think of something that does make me mad and use that anger to push you.
This is what I am using now(this works because I have only slept with one girl so far, but I may be wrong): Think of this girl's past(her exes). Think about one of her exes laying her on the first or second date... How many dates has it been now? You have to be bad like her ex. Just go for the move.

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I want her as a gf.

I agree with you she definitely did like me. I don't think she's as interested anymore though. Not only did i show i don't have enough balls to smash her. but through our talks she saw alot of my flaws.

So the whole other guy picture thing is either telling me to make a move, or she's just trying to show she's got someone and for me to leave her alone. Which is it?

and what do i do? Should i freeze her out? isn't that stepping aside and letting someone else have her.

Just talk to her or text her as usual and TEHN freeze her out. She will wonder what happened and come back to you ( hang in there it might take a few days!)
Dont mind-fuck yourself with the thought that someone else is fucking her meanwhile. Unless she is a slut its not going to happen okay?! Dont worry!
Freeze her out and wait for her to re-initiate the contact. When she does dont talk trash for to long. Get to the actual point. Ask her out! So she knows whats up. When you´re on a date just start with some kino as explained in this guide.
I can totally relate to your situation because ive been through it. You will see how this whole kino thing will change your "relationship" with her. Because once you start touching her she knows what your intensions are.
And once you start touching maybe she is kind enough to meet you half way and initiate some more on her own. Who knows....I know its explained in the kino guide as well but even though she rejected you once try it again and KISS HER!