| Different frames work for different guys. Only your natural frame will work properly for you. Girls will know straight away when you're not being authentic.
Take a few mins to visualise in your head, without you trying any gimmicks, that you're having a kick ass night in a club: dancing, speaking with a bunch of different girls, f-ing around with your mates, having great, entertaining interactions, getting kisses, pulling at the end of the night.... etc, an overall classic 'great night'.
What do you look like? How is your entire attitude? What are you presenting yourself like to the girls?
You're probably presenting yourself like you usually do to your best mates. As long as you're fairly 'normal', i.e. not too weird and not too geeky for the avg. Joe, take that frame and attitude (that is the reason why your best friends like to hang out with you), and apply it to your interactions. If you think your intelligence or humour could be too much outside the scope of the avg. Joe's, just tone it down a little bit, but not so much that you're being unauthentic.
Treat girls like they're your best friends, and as long as you're completely comfortable with them, they'll be 100% comfortable with you, and most of your interactions will go great.
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