Hi everyone. First post for me. My story is that I broke up with my gf few months ago and haven´t really gotten over her. I´ve tried to go out alot but my game just doesn´t work. I´ve always met my to girls through school or hobbies. I´ve got pretty good body language and im ok looking i guess. I´ve got approach anxiety but I really feel that no one wants to talk to me. No girls give me positive signals. I can get myself to talk few girls a night but they´re never interested. I just don´t get whats wrong and it really messes my confidence. I guess I don´t have good energy because I´m sullen all the time but I´ve tried to smile and all but no one seems to smile back at me. I´ve got this rocker style that can be a turn of for someone but lately it seems that no one is attracted to me. Sorry about typos since English is not my native language.

I don't know what you are doing wrong, although I read your text, maybe that's what is wrong.
Seriously work on getting a point across, get out practice, build confidence and stop being a wuss.
Though in your case it seems to be an inner game problem that has to be resolved at first.

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Darth Dragoon may be right. It sounds as if you aren't really comfortable yet. Are you happy with who you are? If not you either need to find a good way to fake it, or set some goals for yourself that you know you can achieve. The goals really seems to be working for me. Knowing every day that I am one step closer to my goals keeps my confidence up and I don't need to worry if she does or doesn't like me because she is not one of my goals. She is just a side road along the path.

Your body language may be good, but what about your voice tone? Are you quiet or shaky? Do you hold good eye contact? not too much or too little. Do you command attention or do you wait for an easy conversation to start? Is the conversation you start exciting or routine? If some random person started these convo's with you, would you be entertained, or would you politely oblige them with a response?

You didn't give us much details to work with and i'm trying to fish a bit.

Re-read your post. Everything you said is exactly what's wrong with your "game."

You're not used to meeting new people that you don't have a formal introduction to.

You have no sense of self worth.

You're seeking a reaction from other people.

You've only approached one girl.

Yeah, everything you say is true except the last line.

the_hitman_: I´m quiet and I speak in a pretty low monotone voice. You have good points.

I´ve had beautifull girlfriends but I´m worried that maybe I can´t reach that level anymore. Still I don´t want to start hitting on girls that aren´t as pretty. Last weekend was weird. Me and my friends were having a bachelor party and went to a stripclub. Even the strippers left me alone Which was good because I didn´t have a lot to money anyway.