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PostPosted: Fri Dec 06, 2013 11:31 pm 
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Here's the story this really doesn't matter just curious to get some outside opinions.
A while ago I met a girl she was cool we talked a bit things were going well. We had a lot in common, and were talking about music one night, and she stopped replying no Big deal she probably fell asleep. The next day I asked her if she was going to the concert we were talking about no reply thought that was a bit strange, so I let it be a couple days, and texted her no reply. So I said fck it. It kinda sucked I liked her, but oh well can't win em all I moved on, and am with another girl now. But then she started liking everything I post on fb. I took that to mean she wants to talk again. I thought fck it why should I after you cut me off mid convo for no reason. Its not important I moved on from her, but was just curious for some insight thanks!


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PostPosted: Sun Dec 08, 2013 8:46 am 
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Call the girl on the phone to try to salvage the situation. If no answer or no callback, next the girl.


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PostPosted: Sun Dec 08, 2013 9:14 am 
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She probably had other guys talking to her at that time, and she was more into another guy. Don't take it personal, it's her attraction and it's not your problem. You might have been doing the right thing, but she wanted the other guy a bit more. In other words, she had you more like an option to choose from later on. The moment you went to another girl, she started seeing how she can lose you for good and wanted you to give her some attention back.

Girls like that game, most of them crave attention like there's no tomorrow. I'd say keep gaming other girls and avoid this one. That's just my opinion though.


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PostPosted: Sun Dec 08, 2013 9:27 am 
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I bet she's just playing a stupid "attention whore" game with you at this point, she's got no interest in you what so ever she's feeling insecure about her own value because you moved on like a real man (proud of you bro)
This isn't her trying to get back with you (Did she call? Did she initiate a "Hey you wanna hangout just the two of us"?)
this is her using you to feed her ego. Stay above that shit.

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Want to have some fun? Wait till she's close to the feeling there's nothing to get from you and exactly that moment throw her a cookie, then ignore her again and watch her go wild again, repeat till she jumps you or drops dead :3

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PostPosted: Sun Dec 08, 2013 2:16 pm 
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Call the girl on the phone to try to salvage the situation. If no answer or no callback, next the girl.
Thanks for the advice guys! I don't think its worth swallowing my pride to call this girl. That may sound immature, but she cut me off mid convo for no reason. I'm not interested in getting her back I just wanted to get some insight into what I possibly could have done different if anything.
Thanks for the advice guys I appreciate it!!


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PostPosted: Sun Dec 08, 2013 8:56 pm 
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Welcome to the female mind. This happens a lot and will always happen. Unless the girl is proactive to your seduction then just downgrade her and move on to someone else.


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PostPosted: Sun Dec 08, 2013 9:21 pm 
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Well since we're throwing in insight..
I can relate to your position man, been there and it is frustrating to no end.

Personally I don't think you should give up a chase right away if there's still chance/interest.
What I'd recommend you do is not focus on her. Talk to other girls but on the other hand don't completely toss her out the window. What I think happened is that after whatever reason she stopped talking to you she wants your attention especially since she has to earn it.

Like Xoved said, she knows she can lose you and wants you more now so talk to her. Don't give her much validation or approval, stay mysterious, make her think "Is he mad at me? Does he want me? Did I already mess up" or if you want Friendzone her, talk to her about other girls like she's a sister.

I've done this quite a few times, She'll be in the palm of your hand and you can decide if she's LTR material or whatever else you want. Reward Good Behavior & Punish Bad Behavior. Give her approval is she's keeping contact with you and if she becomes difficult again, Next her.


Good luck.


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PostPosted: Sun Dec 08, 2013 11:10 pm 
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thanks for the advice guys! Thing is I liked her before, but after this I'm not even attracted to her anymore. That's just my personality I met a girl last summer she was a KO we were supposed to go out she flaked then started playing games I was attracted to her, but after her games my attraction turned to I'd like hit that then to fck it I don't care anymore. When I got to that point, and sh realized her bullshit isn't gonna work on me is when she started chasing me.

Way I look at it is I'm a grown ass man I don't need to spend time fcking around with girls that play stupid ass games. Tests, and what not are part of the challenge, but I don't have time for pointless stupid games.


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