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PostPosted: Tue Dec 03, 2013 4:59 am 
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Hey guys. So I've grown a lot with women over the past few months, thanks to a lot of tips and tricks I picked up on from here and a few books. I'm no where near a cold approach pussy killer but I can make good/ flirty conversation, be confident and get a few girls to fall for my charms.
But now there's a girl on my University course who has an amazing body and a cute face and is pretty cute personality-wise aswell, she likes me and as of yet I don't like her back. But I feel quiet intimidated by her, a couple of years ago I could never speak to this girl nevermind flirting with her and her liking me. I guess I feel she is out of my league and her ex-partners are probably buff, model-types who are hung like bulls.
I'm also under pressure from mutual friends on our course to ask her on a date which I'm also unsure about haha
What can I do?
Help me PUAforum gods, shed your wisdom onto me.
Thanks, Hunter!

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PostPosted: Tue Dec 03, 2013 5:02 am 
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Ask her on a date. Bite the bullet and don't be a bitch.


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PostPosted: Tue Dec 03, 2013 4:11 pm 
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I agree. Just ask her out, but be confident, and direct. Good luck!!


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PostPosted: Tue Dec 03, 2013 5:57 pm 
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Thanks guys. It's not so much the asking her on a date that is a problem because I'm 99% she wants one anyway. I just don't want to make things awkward on our course and feel that she is still out of my league despite being this new born apparently fairly attractive guy. I don't know if I am actually in her league and just overthinking it and letting the AFC me of last year out or if I'm genuinely not up to her level yet and somehow managed to pick her up. I'm just worried that compared to her ex's I am just a bit of a tubby, inferior soon to be embarrassing mistake

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PostPosted: Tue Dec 03, 2013 6:27 pm 
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Dude I know how you feel, but you can't think that way!! You're the prize!! Check out this site www.wayoftheplayer.com there's a lot of articles you'll find helpful on there.


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Thanks guys. It's not so much the asking her on a date that is a problem because I'm 99% she wants one anyway. I just don't want to make things awkward on our course and feel that she is still out of my league despite being this new born apparently fairly attractive guy. I don't know if I am actually in her league and just overthinking it and letting the AFC me of last year out or if I'm genuinely not up to her level yet and somehow managed to pick her up. I'm just worried that compared to her ex's I am just a bit of a tubby, inferior soon to be embarrassing mistake
Dude, if you think she's 99%, or even 50%, just DFAG. What if's are just that. Look, go out. If she's interested, bag it and tag it. I GUARANTEE you she's more scared that you won't like her than the other way around -- especially if she could be out of your league. Just don't be a blithering schmuck and be The Man. She's with you, not the other way around.

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Sounds like YOU DO like her BRO!!! lol. Have you ever read up on NLP? Basically I think you're stuck thinking that you're the same person you used to be. The only problem you have right now is that negative voice in your head that says "it's too good to be true".

take time to close your eyes and vision "the old you" the person who was scared of just looking at a woman. Picture that image getting smaller and further away until in disappears in your mind... replace that picture with the stronger version of you.... think of how far you've come and all the successes you've already had. Replay this in your mind over and over... realize you're an entire different person.

She's interested in you and wants to fuck you... stop with the self-sabotage and go for what you deserve. You put effort into yourself... now it's time to enjoy the dividends.

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PostPosted: Wed Dec 04, 2013 5:27 pm 
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Hey guys, thanks for all the great advice so far. It's been awesome, although I don't know what DFAG means and I think I maybes do like her. But now I'm under the impression she doesn't like me as much as people made out as I've only noticed interest from her when she's been drunk. Last time we were out drinking (only really talk to her when our course friends go out nightclubing) I wanted to get her number face to face to show confidence but had to leave really quickly, before I got to do it so she got my number off a friend. Since then she replies really slow and as if she's not really interested in me. I'm just mind fucked, does she even like me in that way?

Help me out guys, thanks again!

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PostPosted: Wed Dec 04, 2013 6:10 pm 
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Who says you're out of her league? Maybe she's wondering why you haven't taken things to the next level and has started to think you're not interested or a bit of a wuss.

You miss all the shots you don't take.


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PostPosted: Wed Dec 04, 2013 7:46 pm 
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Her not replying too quick is her way of acting not too interested. Its the same with guys not replying to quickly because they don't wanna look needy. GET THIS INTO YOUR HEAD SHE IS NOT OUT OF YOUR LEAGUE!! You're the man every girl wants to get with you. That's the menatality you need to have you're the prize. Don't look for ioi's just assume she's attracted to you. Its like Sean Connery said in his movie The Rock "losers whine about their best winners go and date the prom queen" you have her number so call her don't text, and confidently and directly set up a date. However if she doesn't answer don't leave a msg. Good luck!!


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Her not replying too quick is her way of acting not too interested. Its the same with guys not replying to quickly because they don't wanna look needy. GET THIS INTO YOUR HEAD SHE IS NOT OUT OF YOUR LEAGUE!! You're the man every girl wants to get with you. That's the menatality you need to have you're the prize. Don't look for ioi's just assume she's attracted to you. Its like Sean Connery said in his movie The Rock "losers whine about their best winners go and date the prom queen" you have her number so call her don't text, and confidently and directly set up a date. However if she doesn't answer don't leave a msg. Good luck!!


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that quote is 100% true and shows how dangerous it is for you to have this type of doubt.

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PostPosted: Fri Dec 06, 2013 4:07 pm 
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You're right guys. She's out of my league because I put her there. Not anymore, I've decided I'm out of her league haha.
I always joke a little with her and get her to chase me and act as if I'm higher status, confident and cocky (although as you could probably tell, I didn't think it haha) when we talk or text. We also talked on the phone for nearly 4 hours the other night and I'm sure she enjoyed it and even said that she was waiting for me to call after dancing (I mentioned it earlier that I would after jokingly saying I got her a Christmas present from Ann Summers). I also said that if she is lucky I'd ring her last night too but I didn't have time so didn't, but when I said I would she said she's home alone again so I think she hinted that I should (wasn't hinting at going round hers haha).

Thanks again guys, You have helped me out a lot all of you.
Nice quotes too fella's haha

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