I'm a new single, 19 year old guy in my second year of university. I recently got out of a one year long relationship.

I have been getting back into the game, going out and sarging around campus, hitting the clubs and coffee shops that are popular around campus etc. In the process I've discovered my rep has taken a hit in a negative way and I'm wondering if there is anything I could do to counter-act this? It's not just a one-off, it's happened several times since I've starting gaming again.

Thanks in advance guys!

depends on what happened, if its to bad then i suggest sarging at another location if its not that bad i doubt to many people would believe it......i had plenty of rumors in college one was that i was gay and the reason i don't go to basketball practice cause i was fucking the coach son -_- did that stop me from getting girls.....not at all, now if its bad like you killed somebody then yeah sarge somewhere else

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Before I reply... Let me ask, what happened?

Whether its good or bad... it doesn't matter. There's alot of business out there that will create negative press for themselves. There is no such thing as "bad press" because all press is good press. The thing you want to learn how to do is reframe whatever "reputation" that you have. So what happened? I can give you a few ways that you might be able to reframe it incase the situation were to ever come back and bite you in the ass.

I posted a thread on here before it happened, but basically here's what happened: In high school I was the stereotypical unpopular geek/loser. I discovered PUA in the summer after I graduated high school. It helped me get more social, lose my virginity and come out of my shell. That fall I started university and a couple of months in I got a girlfriend (my first) Her hair was collar-bone length when we started dating. Both when we met and when we started dating she told me that every 2 years she cuts off all her hair short like the actress from Harry Potter to donate for wigs for people with cancer. After a year of dating, it came time for her to cut again. But I didn't want her to cut it because I'm only attracted to girls with long hair, not short. I told her not to cut it, she kept saying I knew this was going to happen going in and she warned me before we started dating. On the night before her hair appointment when it was clear she wasn't going to consider my opinion I broke up with her.

So I guess word has gotten around as to why I broke up with her. There are tons of people on campus but girls must talk, and I have had so many girls tell me off and call me a "shallow jerk" and worse in class or when I go out sarging. I was a fairly social guy even when I was dating my girlfriend so lots of people know me, and I guess that has helped the news of what happened spread. Basically what I'm looking for is a way to counter-act the negative idea girls who've heard this have in their heads. I don't think what I did was wrong at all but we all know that girls are illogical so they might not feel the same way. I live and work on campus, so I really need to turn my rep around because right now I don't have any opportunities to sarge in places besides on campus or the areas really close to campus. Thanks in advance guys!

Lol. You WERE being a shallow jerk. I don't know how you spin being the dude who dumped a girl after 1 year because she cut her hair for cancer patients. If other factors in your story were different, ie you were just dating, you didn't state the reason why you broke up, or it wasn't for cancer patients I could possibly see a spin for this that makes you seem selective, but sadly you've crossed the line from being a man with standards to unemotional deucebag. Like I'm a GUY, and even I think that's cold...and not "badass player cold" just "immature psycho cold." Sarge elsewhere if you can.

Bro, I do understand the sentiment about losing attraction to her, but the way you broke up with her was just so wrong and immature. You should have known that something like that will backfire.

You pretty much placed mines all over your hunting ground yourself. Complaining now about how to get rid of these hidden bastards that blow up in your face from time to time is pointless.

Nowhere else to go? (We'll there is but you're just too lazy to get used to a new field I presume :3)
Learn to live with mines blowing off randomly in your face, if you don't want to switch to a new field and remember campus is huge! Get out of your used social cycles, there's ppl that don't know you.

You reap what you seed...

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You can't rep anymore, but the +1 thought was there

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