Hey guys here's what's up. This is fucked, and out of my control, but at the same time I need to know how to make it better.

Went out with this girl tonight took her to an frozen yogurt place. Turned out I got the adress wrong we walked a bit not a problem. Here's where the problem lies. Escalated through touching solid body language eye contact was good, but on the way home I was feeling sick after I ate the ice cream. We're talking a bit in the car the whole time I'm thinking would you just get out so I can throw up. As I'm talking to her its coming up. I can't kiss her like that. So I hug her she gets out I can't even walk her to her door. I take off so I can take care of business.

That's one of the shit happens factors that pops up, but that's the 2nd date and no kiss. I gotta act quickly wekre going out again sat all I can think is escalate like a motherf*cker, and go balls to the wall. Any advice is appreciated thanks!!

you probably killing her lol....she wants you to kiss her most likely and if you wait the next time yall go on a date she'll probably rape you lol....for some reason girls love rejection and being ignored so she's probably confused af wondering why you haven't tried to make a move so this could be a benifit

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

That's true I haven't thought of it like that. Mainly because I feel like such a loser right now, but its one of those things I couldn't help it, and I sure as fck couldn't kiss her. Other than a slightly awkward ending it went well. Just gotta bring my A game on saturday.

yeah always look on the bright side, and try to look at things at a better perspective.

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

Thanks man you're right. I just went into over thinking mode.shitty situation, but not a lot I could do about it. I guess all I can do is bring my A-game in saturday, and make up for it.

I think this whole situation is funny and that's how you should look at it. You can tell her that you felt really sick last time and didn't wanna throw up in her face which funnily presented definitely will make her laugh.
You did nothing wrong. She was probably holding off on farting anyway in the meantime

Haha. I'm starting to see the humor in it now. I don't know if I should txt her, and make a joke out of it, and say something like. Blank place = FAIL!! I was so sick last night I couldn't leave your place fast enough. Sorry for my ungentlemanly behaviour lmao.

I was thinking something like that and try to make a joke of it.

What do you guys think?

Blank place is not a fail, it hardly matters at all. I've bounced around from venue to venue (mostly due to things being too crowded) and it has had little to no impact on success.

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Blank place is not a fail, it hardly matters at all. I've bounced around from venue to venue (mostly due to things being too crowded) and it has had little to no impact on success.[/quote

We only went to one place, and had ice cream. I meant it was a fail because I was so sick after I had ice cream, and couldn't at least kiss close. Like I said in my original post I couldn't get out of there fast enough we're talking, and its starting to come up. I hugged her she got out I took off out of sight to throw up.

It IS funny. At least you now have a reason to turn the next contact into a sexual instantly. 'Hey, sorry about my rude goodbye last time, I was sick blahblahblah. Since you owe me, shall I kiss you now?' and instant kino and do it.

i've actually tried something sorta like that but instead of being sick, my ps3 exploded and i had to rush home (im a gamer) it works like a charm

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

Here's an update. I txtd her, and made a bit of a joke about it everything is cool, and we're still on for saturday so its all good. I made more of a situation out of it in my head. She was all sympathetic like ohh no are you ok now, and so on, so this could potentially play in my favor. However I HAVE to make it happen on the next date.

Thanks for the advice guys. Hope you got a laugh out of this. I'm laughing about it now!!

She hopes you're okay. If she said that like if she meant it it's great. Keep her on hold now until you see her, texting never makes her disposition towards you better so just leave it as it is now. Can you imagine yourself acting like I suggested? Then when you see her, do as I and our southerngentlemen said. It will work

Totally mate I'm not a shy person. I plan to keep her on hold now I just wanted to straighten last night out. For my own sake so I didn't feel like such a loser, and make sure we're still on for saturday which we are. So now that everything is cleared up I'm just gonna let it be until sat.

Thanks for the advice!