I have been dateing a hb9 for a while and had sex on our last two meetings.
I catch her stareing at me like shes in heaven
She randomly compliments me saying that im a really good guy
She mentions that if im going to see anyone that id tell her. Meaning ahe wants to be exclusive.
Shes affectionate when shes with me.

I just cant get over how she never calls me to arrange something. We have always met up on weekends. Like every weekend. Mid week shes like a ghost. She works long days and has a phycolgical bed issue that she has to sleep by a certain time from monday to friday. So we spoke on phone (thursday night) and she tells me shes busy tomorow night and on sunday she has a charity run at like 7am. All i said was we`ll keep in touch.

I dont want to be the one to always call and arrange shit. After all the signs and things that are said. im getting over the lack of non visuall/physicall will for her to make an effort. Would it be a bad idea not to call her tomorow and see if she gets intouch with me to meet up over this weekend? What would the pros and cona be if any? When we are togetber ita all good but i just get over the chase!!!

I'd be wary myself of coming off as needy and overly-invested in her man. Show her that you have your own busy life and although she is important to you, she is not the only important thing in your life.

Sounds like she needs to know that she needs to reciprocate a little more when it comes to initiating hook ups etc. I'd ease off the whole "Lets do this meet on tuesday" whatever and wait a week for her to pick up the phone. Make her think, "Why hasnt Tradie called?" and pick up the phone and organise something with you.

Cos it looks like she's become used to relying on you, she has to put in minimal effort and after a while that gets boring and unrewarding.

So don't look into it too much, you don;t want to come off as too heavily invested in her mate.

Good luck, hope things work out man

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