Most guys who day game follow this pattern:

Open -> get number -> text/call and set up time to meet -> meet several days later

However, many times they don't actually ever meet up with the girl. The day gamer then becomes baffled because she seemed really into him. She was warm to him, smiled, laughed at him, flirted and touched him back, etc. He simply cant understand why they were never able to meet then. I can...

Its simply because life happens.

She was into him but between that moment and the 4+ days later she was supposed to meet back up with him, life happened. She got sick, someone died, she met someone else, her ex came back into her life, she left town, she lost her phone, her current BF found out about her plans, or simply the moment passed. Women live in the moment. There are tons upon tons of reasons why she doesn't end up meeting with you again even if she liked your originally.

The whole open and meet days latter approach works and it works well when you get good at it but its not the most efficient way to go about fucking the women you meet. I'm lazy so I like efficiency.

Here is how my system differs:

Open -> get number -> make plans to meet up later that night -> meet up later that night

While shes in the moment, shes more likely to actually meet up with you, even if she has plans (she will cancel them). Planning to meet up later is the most efficient method because shes still in the moment and still excited. Quite often the more time that passes that less excited she becomes. My method is striking while the flame is at its highest and brightest. In addition, by planning to meet up later that night there is very little time for something to come up and go wrong such as any of the things I listed before.

Once I get her number and plan to meet up later, I go and do the same thing with a few other women that way if one flakes I have other options. If she shows up I simply text the others and reschedule.

The best time to employ this strategy is Monday - Thursday right as women are getting off work/school. Because its not a weekend day she is less liekly to have plans and because your approaching her when shes getting off work, out of school, you are catching her before she makes plans and your reducing the time between meets again. For example, if you approached her in the morning and made plans to meet her 6 hours later at 8PM, more things can and will go wrong then if you meet her at 5PM and make plans to see her again at 8PM.

During those three hours you go meet more women and give her time to go home and get ready. Employ this strategy and you will see a major increase in the number of lays you get.

What can be even more effective if you have decent game and live very close by is to attempt to bring her to your place the first time you meet her. Works more than you think.

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This holds for every form of game... time = uncertainty = bad. It's why time bridges are basically your worst enemy in dating... uncertainty grows "exponentially" with time.

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Personally I go for the date there and then and suggest we have a coffee and chat (as we're getting on so well) straight away-works best on weekends when girls are shopping.

Once you have some momentum you have to keep it rolling and the girls generally go along with it as it fills some "Hollywood, romantic, swept off your feet" fantasy they all have.

Nothing wrong with doing an insatnt date type of thing but I rarely do them for a couple reasons. One, usually when im out im doing other things too such as running errands and just approaching women along the way. Two, during the 30+ minutes I spend on an instant date with one chick, I could have spent that time meeting a few other girls that are interested enough to sleep with me. Its an efficiency thing for me.

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I know what you mean, I did that last year with an HB8 and invited her for a Costa coffee nearby. We walk in an order, sit down and start getting on really well. 10 mins later this Italian HB10 looking looking like Audrey Tatou comes in and sits 5 foot away from us. I'm trying to make eye contact with her, then this idiot AFC comes and sits across from her with some inane chat up line and within 15 mins she's kinoing him! meanwhile my "date" senses I've lost interest and decides to finish her coffee and "meet some friends" So we say our goodbyes and on way out HB10 smiles at me. Thought about going in with a boyfriend destroyer but he looked a bit psycho so called it a day.

Did find a nice shirt later though.

This has always been a hang up for me. In my eyes u dudes are superhuman. I loose so many dates due to planning. I always try to set up a time and get flaked on. I suppose my inner chode comes out. I should be like let's hang now. I guess this is fear of rejection. But nothing goes according to plan. Why don't I learn? I think I have trouble going from moment with ease.

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To be successful with women, you need to be willing to screen them to cut out the time-wasters. Treat women like a window cleaner treats a new housing estate (I should know, since I am one lol). Knocking on a door to ask an old lady if she wants her windows cleaned and then having her say no is good because you then knock on the next door, and the next, until you've done a whole block and got rejected every time. This is a success for me as a window cleaner, because it means i can cross off that street from my list and move onto the next street efficiently, without wasting time arguing with old ladies who think £15 is too expensive to clean a 3-storey house

Every rejection brings you closer to a sale. Embrace rejection. It brings you closer to success. But if you never knock on any doors, you'll never know.

That^

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