Ok so I met this girl a while back. She is the cousin of my friend's room mate. They had a Halloween party where she came to me. I was being alpha and fun. She initiated sexual contact and took me to make out which was fun. We slept together in a sleeping bag (no sex but some funny business). I've been texting her consistently since by qualifying and such. She lives in Connecticut and is very busy so she didn't come around my area til thanksgiving. SHE asked me to go for drinks and we did. Lots of great deep conversation getting to know each other. It was a calm night. Kissed her cheek good night as we left. I've been texting her still and I asked her to go for dinner she said we can do something when she gets back for Christmas.

I want to lock this girl up. She is the catch of the century. I gave her yesterday off of texting and I'm not sure how to continue until Christmas. We have talked so much and I don't want to lose her interest but I'm running out of stuff to text about. Is there any tip I could get to maintain interest over text in a playful alpha way so that I can have the best shot of avoiding a flake when she comes around?

PS. She lives an hour and a half away so the distance isn't bad. I'd deal with it in a relationship with her.

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Shoot her ant interesting text. Like something cool that happened to you and you wanted to share. Leave it off with a cliff hanger and let her steam for a day. Works like a charm for me.

Al

Cool stuff doesn't happen all that often. So I'm running out of stuff to come up with.

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You could send her a text that you saw sleeping bags on sale and you thought of her. Get the cheeky fun vibe going.

- Jack

Cool stuff happens all the time. You just need to pause and notice it. Maybe not with you but other people. Every day I am around people, there are a few stories to tell.

Practice observation and you will have tons of stuff to talk about in no time!

Al

^^^^^^^^ Like!

Text game is like a fucking pit of despair for me. I could kick supreme ass in person. Make out loads of sexual shit going on great conversation. But then when I leave and it comes down to text no matter how good I feel about it I always lose her interest. I have no clue what to do here. There's only so much to talk about. No matter what you say i cannot come up with interesting shit every day.

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Make the texts naughty, fuck trying to get to know her via text, you won't. Texting is for arranging to meet up, the very occasional funny text, and turning her on.

I start slow with just talking about wanting to get her alone so I can see how naughty she is.

You - "The sleeping bags I saw today made me smile, I wonder how naughty you can really be..."

Start with something like that.

She'll reply with something none hardcore as that's what girls you haven't slept with yet usually do.

Her - "You wish you could find out " or "You'll have to wait and see" or some bullshit like that. Then you just escalate a little at a time i.e. when you're having sex with someone you shouldn't whip your shirt off and clothes in a hurry and jack it over her face, do it slowly ad with purpose.

You - "I might just head over to your place right now...I'll bring the tie, you better have a blindfold"

Get the idea?

Getting texts naughty is what everybody wants, after a first date on a few occasions I'll send the text "I wish you came back today, I'd love to tie you up and make you mine baby x" - Even when they've been like "Wow, that's a little forward" they have not once been put off by it and would continue to text and ask me out.

There is nothing worse than mindless, boring and lacklustre texting. If you haven't got a real purpose to text, then don't. Don't just text because you're bored and want to just talk for the sake of it, leave that to the girlfriends of this world.

So I tried to flirt sexually with something similar to what you suggested. I told her how I finally took the sleeping bag out of my trunk and how I couldn't look at it the same way. Followed by some sexually charged stuff but she didn't bite and play.

She's a really busy person. She works three jobs and told me about how this month would be super busy for her. She doesn't have much time to text lately so our conversation has slowed. I'm not sure whether to chalk it up entirely to her being busy or disinterested.

One thing to note is that she pretty much always responds to my messages even if it's after a while.

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