Heya

After a long moment of self sympathie and sorry feeling i decided to go out.
When i went out it started as shit... But when i started to see the fun Side to it , it become more fun and Tallinn to woman become more easy.
It felt like i was going on auto-pilot and rejections didn't feel like rejections
In tact they felt like the girls were testing me out
But the question is how do you give that sexual vibe
It is hard to explain but i was more having fun than actually trying to get laid...
But of all the approaches and numbercloses none of them wanted to have sex with me
They just saw me as that Guy from the party who is fun

So my question is
How do you escalate to sex ?
Is it something verbal? For example like just talking about sex
Or is it something you convey with the vibe you are giving?

Im looking forward to the answers

Sincerly
Jay

there's many things you must learn in the way of seduction lol

1 tone of voice is a big thing, you want to talk to he rin a low pitched whisper, you don't want to casualy talk about freaky things lol

2 you want to start off somewhere, the guys i hang around with simply put the girl hand on their ___ and see if they do anything and that is not seduction thats just idk, what i like to do is ask questions in a voice that arrous her, ill say "what would you do if i kiss you right now" if she say anything besides no lift up her chin and slowly kiss her......

3 touch, alot of guys are afraid to touch a girl and the few who aren't usually touch too muich, the movie don juan de marco with johnny depp basically said that touch can have a nun ready to rape you.....most guys thing just touching a certain area can do wonders imagine different pressures on certain areas, a gentle touch across the body will amaze you with the results

4. alot of guys get sex but you want to be a seductive person with alot of sex appeal, back when i was on my game i would have girls text and call me looking for sex or sending me nudes (at the time i wasn't attractive at all) if all you want to do is hit a girl then you have to start putting out seductive vibes,

my advice is to start watching movies made by women, i know it sounds gay but it gives a female perspective of what girls want and how they want things to happen, cause i know ALOT of guys who do it wrong

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A woman's g-spot is in her mind. You need to talk about sex and sexual things to get her thinking about you as a sexual being. At the same time, you can gradually make her aroused with your touch. maybe a sensual massage, then a kiss, then get naked.

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This is good advice but a really important thing I would say he left out is EYE CONTACT.

You should look a girl in the eyes as if you were making sweet, passionate love to her at that very moment. Let her feel that sexiness coming out of you.

VERY good point, i forgot about that because it thought it was common sense but i forgto alot of people didn't know that

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

Thank you for the advice!

Im going to try it out today !

Gold bruh. Heard this many times, but still gold.

Hey, besides eye contact, how about closing the gap between you. Move in as it were.

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Thanks,

WGY

"Do you have some good openers for Chinese girls?"
"They usually don't need an opener. Most of them are the pull-tab kind."

Don't GAF, just DGAF (think about it)

Fear is the mind killer. Anger is the mood killer.

Don't forget about logistics. You want to make it easy for sex to happen.. i.e. arranging meetings at your place (or close by) with no time constraints etc. etc.

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the answer is very broad. There's so much to learn about sexual communication. Flirting, being confident/funny, eye contact, escalating physical contact all have to do with it. I think you really need to keep studying and putting yourself out there... it'll take some time to get the hang of.

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