Hello and thank you for reading my post.

In a desperate atempt to get out of the friend zone and incited by a bunch of blistering idiots I started the standard protocol of being more sexual with a girl that was clearly never interested in me.

After an unfortunate coment on my part she became pretty pissed off at me. She said my coment was very distastful, that I should learn when I am being corresponded or not and the limits of certain jokes. She was seriously pissed off, but did end her last text with a ";)" after I apolegized.

Now, the question is, how to recover? I'm not even intersted in her anymore, I just want my friend back. Should I say something or wait and let her vent out for a while?

wait..........................................................................
..............................................yea, about that long.

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Thanks.

We are frequently both online at the same time, so if she does not make a move, how long do I wait before saying something?

Also, we have mutual friends and there is the strong possibility I will see her in person next weekend. If so, should I bring it up and try to clear the air or act like nothing happened?

We used to be really good friends, it it matters. Texted almost daily, talked about everything. What are my chances that things will get back to the way they were?

Problem: You offended a girl you thought you wanted to get with but you just want her as a friend.

Solution: apologize.

Seriously mate, you've done the most you can do. If she doesn't accept it and move on then she isn't a proper friend and fuck her anyway, should take it as a compliment.

Give her some time to herself btw. She'll still be in "IMMA TELL EVERY1" mode so she's being reminded how twatty you were a lot but also how nice it was for you to apologize.

Trust, if she misses your friendship she'll let you know.

Be honest, are you really over her, or are you just saying that? Because how you should behave is different in either situation. Just know this before you answer: if you go the friend route, you ain't likely to come back.

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Honestly?

Of course I want her, and not for a one night stand, but to have a relationship with her. She's not the hottest girl I know (HB7 or HB8) but she is by far the coolest, and proved she has my back more than once.

But she friendzoned me from the start and never showed any signs that she is atracted to me. Now this... The only reason I escalated on this was because 3 PUA wannabes said it was working and the more I did it the more unconfortable she was and the more the bastards incited me to keep at it, until the whole situation blew in my face like a poorly made pressure cooker.

So even if I want her I will not lose a good friend (wich she already proved to be) chasing some pipe dream and fighting a lost battle.

Do you understand my point of view?

Still, what should be my behaviour in any of the two situations?

Ok, so sounds like you have accepted you will not date her anytime soon. In that case, apologize.

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You say that this girl clearly wasn't interested in you in the first place. Why do you think you have a chance ?

Also what did you say to upset her ?

The way I see it. Girl not interested in you sexually for whatever reason. You try to get sexual. She gets offended because she showed no signs of interest.

Solution: Forget her. This happens, not much you can do.

Just so I know, if I was still hellbent on gaming her (wich I am not) what was it that I should be doing?

Now I'm pretty sure I don't have a chance. If I ever had, I blew it. I made a move because, first, I had to try, second, I was being misled by people I wrongly considered my friends and claimed to be helping me, and third because even though she friendzoned me (asking for relationship advice, listing ex-boyfriends) she never rejected what little kino I did and was always playful and receptive.

As for the reason, well, I kinda implied a certain dress she wanted to buy would make her look like a hooker.

Freeze-out and then slowly re-engage.

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