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PostPosted: Sat Nov 23, 2013 8:00 pm 
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I go by bus so I do daygame. Before the community, I didn't use to open HBs, and I have AE so I came up with this, to open, without panicking: Venue: bus, subway. Hello, can you tell me where can I pick up a copy of the Free City Entertainment Weekly?
HB: NO.
Do you have one on you? NO
Are they still in print or it is only on the Internet?
HB: Yes, they are in print! My friend saw a cool ad about a SkyHook and...bla, bla bla
So where can I get one?
HB: Not in this zone...only downtown...
I say: Okay.

And this point she goes back to listening her Ipod, phone, sms, looks left, looks right but never again at me, pretending that the previous brief conversation have never taken place.

Even though I accomplished 0% of fear of approach, I still have 0 game because 29 out of 30 HBs show active disinterest after this. How could I improve?

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PostPosted: Sat Nov 23, 2013 10:48 pm 
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As you have discovered, it is 100% on YOU to keep the conversation going. After you open them and get them talking, you need to transition to other topics or continue the thread you started. Get them comfortable with you. Ask about them. Tell them a bit about yourself. Then you notice them "you're cute" and get her #. You got the hard part out of the way by opening them. Keep at it.


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PostPosted: Mon Nov 25, 2013 9:10 pm 
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You have to realize, just because you show low to no anxiety to open doesn't mean you a girl should like you or be interested in what your saying. There are many things you could have done, like elaborate or ask a question about her story or change the subject after she gave you an answer or something. You gotta keep the momentum moving.
Remember this, YOU and HER are STRANGERS. In the beginning, she has no reason to carry on a conversation with you unless you carry it on with her.

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PostPosted: Wed Nov 27, 2013 6:21 am 
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Nothing you've said has caught her attention. Your initial approach isn't bad, but at some point, you have to transition to what your intentions are.

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PostPosted: Thu Nov 28, 2013 7:44 pm 
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You have arguably done the hard part! Just transition into making her talk now! Questions are good then you can lead on from them yourself!


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PostPosted: Thu Nov 28, 2013 7:53 pm 
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Try gaming her instead.

Go direct instead, I'm willing to get your AA will kick in when you tell her you're attracted to her.

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PostPosted: Fri Nov 29, 2013 9:46 pm 
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And when I do this, other passangers start to listen, sometimes but in the conversation...

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PostPosted: Fri Nov 29, 2013 10:04 pm 
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And you care because....?

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PostPosted: Fri Nov 29, 2013 11:28 pm 
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the thing that most guys do is have a casual boring conversation with a girl (sometimes it work because they smile and show confidence) but everybody will tell you the quickest way to a girls heart is through laughter....you don't even have to be funny, as long as you're not creepy she will atleast chuckle....and always have a back up convo ready if your first one fail,

you said she was listening to her ipod, you could have said something like "i hope your listening to ____ they're amazing" and if you hear her lstenign to radiohead or something say "i hope you're listening to radiohead, the best band ever" EASY CONVO STARTER......just remember that reason why pickup lines and teaseing girls work alot are because they're funn, so TRY to be funny....i tell HORRIBLE jokes and still have girls laughing like crazy.....

right now you talked to her like any stranger thats trying to talk to her, she hears boring convos all the time and know how to ignore them.,.....you always want to be something unique

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PostPosted: Sat Nov 30, 2013 12:25 am 
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Oh my fucking God. She wsn't that into you so fucking get over it. Do you really think that just because you ask a random girl you fancy some half assed question about a fucking magazine that she'll just melt into your arms. Get over yourself dude. You guys think that just because you have the courage to speak to someone you need to get a fucking medal for it. She probably thought you were a desperate fucking little creep. Talk to girls as ugly as you are. That'll get you a date instead of hitting on someone way out of your league the next time dude. That goes for all of you. I'm handsome and get the girls I deserve and are on my level. You fuglies think you're entitled to have every good looking girl who fucking walks past you. Stop aiming so high and making complete pricks of yourselves FFS.


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PostPosted: Sat Nov 30, 2013 1:07 am 
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Oh my fucking God. She wsn't that into you so fucking get over it. Do you really think that just because you ask a random girl you fancy some half assed question about a fucking magazine that she'll just melt into your arms. Get over yourself dude. You guys think that just because you have the courage to speak to someone you need to get a fucking medal for it. She probably thought you were a desperate fucking little creep. Talk to girls as ugly as you are. That'll get you a date instead of hitting on someone way out of your league the next time dude. That goes for all of you. I'm handsome and get the girls I deserve and are on my level. You fuglies think you're entitled to have every good looking girl who fucking walks past you. Stop aiming so high and making complete pricks of yourselves FFS.
you sound like the perfect troll lol....personally i know that any dude can get almost any girl, but society tells us the same thing that you're saying....that if you aren't beautiful you shouldn't aim for beautiful people. i don't know if im ugly or not but i have an amazing personality and i pull almost any girl i try for....and a friend of mines is very overweight but get model looking girls....because girls know most "handsome" guys are assholes and you proved that point lol.........BUT you are right, just because you ahve the courage to talk to a girl doesn't mean she should melt in your arms, you have to say something, IF you're not gorgeous, say something gorgeous lol....looks fade but the abilty to make a girl melt with your words will always last....

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PostPosted: Sun Dec 01, 2013 3:36 pm 
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Oh my fucking God. She wsn't that into you so fucking get over it. Do you really think that just because you ask a random girl you fancy some half assed question about a fucking magazine that she'll just melt into your arms. Get over yourself dude. You guys think that just because you have the courage to speak to someone you need to get a fucking medal for it. She probably thought you were a desperate fucking little creep. Talk to girls as ugly as you are. That'll get you a date instead of hitting on someone way out of your league the next time dude. That goes for all of you. I'm handsome and get the girls I deserve and are on my level. You fuglies think you're entitled to have every good looking girl who fucking walks past you. Stop aiming so high and making complete pricks of yourselves FFS.
Mystery is not that handsome either, and now he is too old; Andy Josha is not handsome, PUA Yad is not is not pretty; Neil Straus is not a Brad Pit; but all those four still gets the ladies. What does your lookism has got to say about that?

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PostPosted: Sun Dec 01, 2013 3:45 pm 
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My best highschool friend was a natural, we used to go out together, I ened up looking like his gay lover because it showed that he got power and I didnt, I looked at him, to see how he would react to any occurrence, he was aproached by girls often and I wasn't. Therefore I developed a secret rage and angry streak to both pretty girls and boys because they have allways had what I didn't.
If anytime I see a nightclub, I am instantly reminded of past failures, age-19-alcoholism, and a loss, of 5000 US.

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PostPosted: Sun Dec 01, 2013 3:46 pm 
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You have deep inner game issues that should be priority rather than openers

Therapist time.

Take a break from game

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PostPosted: Sun Dec 01, 2013 3:48 pm 
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Oh my fucking God. She wsn't that into you so fucking get over it. Do you really think that just because you ask a random girl you fancy some half assed question about a fucking magazine that she'll just melt into your arms. Get over yourself dude. You guys think that just because you have the courage to speak to someone you need to get a fucking medal for it. She probably thought you were a desperate fucking little creep. Talk to girls as ugly as you are. That'll get you a date instead of hitting on someone way out of your league the next time dude. That goes for all of you. I'm handsome and get the girls I deserve and are on my level. You fuglies think you're entitled to have every good looking girl who fucking walks past you. Stop aiming so high and making complete pricks of yourselves FFS.
And you are probably right: she tought I was a desperate little creep....

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