| How do you approach every woman? That is probably a question you are hoping to have answered here. Most beginners keep looking for the ultimate pick up line, or a pick up line for every situation. Obviously, there is no "ultimate line". There is no one technique that would work in every situation, which is the great fun in pick up.
In my last article I explained the futility of spending time thinking about pickup lines. But what about approaches in general?
The greatest obstacle everyone faces when dealing with women is the approach. Many people describe approaching a women to be scarier than jumping off a plain or bungee jumping (two of my greatest fears). In a poll Americans rated approaching a women as their second biggest fear, losing to the fear of talking in front of a crowed. (fear of death came in number three)
So how do you make the approach? The three second rule is very effective, but I find that it is not quite effective enough. The three second rule states that when seeing a desirable women you must approach right away before approach anxiety can kick in.
But what do you do if anxiety does kick in? The moment you start getting fears and doubts it becomes quite difficult to hold up the three second rule. What do you do? Continue with your approach with shaky results? Pass it off as a failed attempt? Or maybe stand around for half an hour thinking about what to do and working up the courage?
Worry not, for I have the improved, failproof technique. HOW TO BYPASS APPROACH ANXIETY!
Here's how it goes:
1)Three second rule fails and you begin to feel anxiety taking control.
2)Close your eyes and take three deep breaths.
3)Repeat your pickup line three times in your head (it doesn't have to be anything fancy, "high, how you doing" is quite sufficient at this point)
4)Open your eyes, put a million dollar smile on your face and
5)Walk right up to her and make the approach!
That is it! A few simple steps and you can gain the control and relaxation you need to approach any woman you see.
But this is not why I'm writing this. The title says APPROACH EVERY WOMAN, not "how to" APPROACH EVERY WOMAN. And yes, that is on purpose.
What I want to talk to you about today is a little more advanced than opening a random girl, I want to talk about Approaching Every woman!
Clubs are bustling with night life, populated by men, women, couples, people looking to escape, people looking to have a good time and people looking for sex. As you improve your pickup skills your statistical chance of hooking up with a women increase.
When you make it a principle to approach every woman in your path you are statistically inclined to make a catch. I'm not talking about regular, pickup artist style random hookups, I'm talking about boosting your skills to the point nearing master pickup artist skills.
When entering a club you start right away, no waiting around. Forget about planning and strategies. Forget about the three second rule, we are now working on the one second rule! Say hi to the woman to your right, complement the dress of the girl to your left. Drop a few NEGs on that 10 dancing in front of you and make sure that sexy brunet knows you noticed her too.
Open the guys too! No better way to DHV than to have other guys do it for you. Grab a few girls and introduce them to the guys you just met. Grab some guys and introduce them to some gals you just met.
When your sitting down make eye contact with as many girls possible and hold it. Hold it for long enough wink to say "I see you" and move on or signal her to come over.
I think your getting the idea by now.
When do you go out sarging? You are ALWAYS sarging! Every time you open your door and walk outside. On the street. In the store. When you're at work. When you go out to have fun. You are always sarging! And you are sarging every girl in reach. Who knows if that average girl in front of you might turn out to be a wildcat in bed? Go find out!
Approaching goes much deeper than just saying something. As a matter of fact, most of your approaches are going to be non-verbal. You can open by dancing, smiling, winking, waving or doing any other action that says "I'm HERE, NOTICE ME!".
Just how effective is this? EXTREMELY!
Once you opened a girl, even with a simple gesture, it is much easier to approach her later. Opening girls quickly announces you as a confident, dominant male. Open more girls and you increase your potential a thousandfold.
To me, meeting girls became long ago much more than just about sex. Long ago it became an adventure of meeting other people and trying to find cool people here. Every person is a possibility, every approach an adventure.
Remember, many girls walk into a club looking to get laid, only to be disappointed and going home alone. Open all the girls and you will quickly find those girls. Open all the girls and you could pick up ANY girl in the club. _________________ http://www.solomonseagal.com
Anyone can walk into a bar and pick up a random girl.
The trick is to make the experience unforgettable to her.
A real PUA will make every women he encounters feel like she experience something once in a lifetime.
Last edited by Archangel White Rose on Tue Jan 29, 2008 8:01 am, edited 1 time in total.
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