What are some nonverbal dhvs to use you use or find useful
My personal dhvs are
-my car e92 m3 which I don't mention or brag about I just let them get in
-Golden pack of condoms with 2 condoms missing in the middle console (warning if u use this DHV I suggest not using the condom they go bad pretty fast)
- leaving a thong under the seat on the passanger side
-flash cash (ill pay for food in the drive thru and pull out a wad pay for the food end up paying with my debit and put the money back in my account for next hb target)

Now add your dhvs BESIDE body language and all that

Dude, none of the above is dhv unless you're only interested in plastic-faced gold-diggers.

Anyone else immediately think of Frank Reynolds?

I used similar tactics to get my ex-wife. She was a smokin hot porn star. Totally superficial and materialistic. I went broke she fucked around we divorced. I don't pay for shit or flash any money at women anymore. I'm pretty well off and have a lot of cool toys. But I rock around in what ever car off my car lot or my beat to crap jeep (which I guess looks pretty cool if you're into rock crawlers. But it looks like a wadded up beer can to women). I'm currently sporting a 2000 nissan altima with 220k miles that I picked up for a grand or a 98 oldsmobile intrigue.

Lose the douche panties and condom trick. That's weak sause.

I will say my jeep, motorcycle and boat do get me laid though. Only because they're fun. Haha.

No offense dude...

But wtf lol?

I really don't want to brag but I want you to re-evaluate your perspective on how this works.

I'm a 19 year old kid. I'm broke, some would even consider me a loser but I'm pulling all the time.

The 'DHV' stuff is nonsense. Its just an ego trip to make you feel good. If you really want to get girls, you need to learn to naturally feel good and happy about yourself through non-material means like having good friends, having passions, meditating and eating healthy. Being happy and positive about your life is how you develop natural acctrivness and it can be felt by the girl through your sub-communications.
When you feel good and happy about yourself, you magnetize girls into wanting to be in your reality. From there you simply approach allot, sift out the girls who dont like you, meet up with the ones you do and then -bang times

-goundy

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@goundy Intresting perspective but you should look into what exactly a DHV, I use those because these tactics are part of my lifestyle I cars women and martial arts are my passions whenever they ask about my car I tell them about it I bought it 23k at a auction and fixed it up with my pops

@Brantley Douche by nature #DoUeven lift lololol jk, yeah I see what your saying but thats what great about dhvs when you dont brag them the female takes it how she wants

@buzz I can tell u spend a lot of time on here....

@Hunter Lol You should probably go over the mystery method and read a little basic psych.
women look for a man that can do 3 things 1.protect her 2. provide for her 3. higher value then her ,u use things in your life to dhv mines being my car my martial arts passion and inner game(which by no means is rock solid but im building on)

OSU to everyone that posted though

Dude you came here asking for advice and now you're lecturing us???

You got a lot to learn bro. Being humble for a start, it helps.

hmm. Don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to hate on you or your lifestyle.

The question is this. Are you trying to get laid or have an ego boost?

The reason i ask this is because dhving is so far outside of how to get women these days. I have never intentionally done a dhv. I improved the overall quality of my inner game and did MASSIVE MASSIVE ammounts of approaches to refine my technique of getting women into bed. I escalate, build emotional connections and handle logistics. Showing girls how much stuff I have has never been part of my game because I have no stuff.

Is showing how much dough you have to women a new method? I don't know, maybe it works. I'll just give my opinion that this stuff doesn't work.

If you want to be a Saudi prince and throw cash at vegas strippers and get latched onto by gold diggers, you can do that but thats as far a you'll go :\

-goundy

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More like Dennis, or Mac trying to be Dennis. Lmao.

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Goundy's perspective is "interesting" because it's ultimately true.

Despite that Hunter_Foxe and me frequently disagree about some moral questions and preferences, I can safely say that he has game and you, OP, are in no position to lecture him lol. You just came here with a question that doesn't even make sense, and now you're lecturing people with real life experience with women, because of something you read in a book.

Pick-up is more simple than people put it, but if you want to define concepts and draw the whole picture then it becomes a lot more complex than any stupid book can write it. Especially one which is pretty outdated and is generally considered most effective against hired guns, and gold diggers.

Let me just address a few things here...
1. Protection
Where is your demonstration of emotional support? I only see the physical one with martial arts. Which is by far less significant... I'm skinny, don't do martial arts, yet women somehow are into me. How could that be?

2. Providing
Again, you lack emotional providing. Only materialistic BS which by alone only attracts gold diggers. Sure it helps if you're not broke, but it's yet again not necessary. I don't own a car, don't even have a license. My parents pay for my college since I don't have a job. I don't even own a place, just a dorm room and still get laid I'd say pretty easily. Proof that providing emotions are far more important.

3. Higher value
This is just BS. A woman doesn't need a man who's higher value in the sense that you put it. The only thing she wants is pretty much feeling like a real woman next to him. And as long as you have a manly, sociable, fun and sexual character with good charisma then this entire value issue would just dissolve. The only thing I can imagine bringing up my "value" according to your system is that I'm a med student. And this becomes insignificant with other med student girls, yet I've banged a considerable amount of them. Getting interesting, isn't it?

Listen, I don't want to offend you. But rather than reading MM, you should just go out and see for yourself that women like having sex just as much, if not more, as men do. So that means you don't need freaking gold condoms and sports car to bang...

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Serves you fucking right. You knew what she was like but your stupid dick did all the talking and chasing. You guys make me fucking crack up with your pathetic attempts at pulling birds. Having wads of cash, leaving a thong under the seat??? Christ why the fuck do you think that's going to turn her on. Fucking hell. She'll think you're a dirty fucking creep. This PUA website is the funniest, entertaining, hilarious place ever to read all your piss poor attempts at trying to pull. Most of you sound like betas pretending your alphas and it will never fucking work. You either ARE an alpha or you're not. PRETENDING will backfire spectacularly on you. Girls can see right through your pathetic fucking act you bozos.

.....interesting thread, lol.






I simply just take what works and fits me and forget everything else I read/hear. Maybe certain things I don't care to see or hear posted and said in various places and products work for other people.

I do, however, have to admit that I actually find it refreshing that people are not glorifying the ideas of the original poster because (in my opinion) that would be taking this PUA stuff way too far. I wasn't sure what the follow up comments would look like when I first finished reading the OP.

While a lot of PUA methods work to various degrees, there has to be a reasonable limit on how much we worship and utilize them...

Anyway, bottom line is if whatever you're doing is working towards getting what you want, then keep doing it and have fun.

Very much agree. Protection and providing were all well and good when we lived in caves, or even 300 years ago. But now in the west, all but the very very poorest of us have a roof over our heads and enough food to survive. We have a police force and tend not to have too many enemy tribes coming round to kill us and run off with our deer meat for supper. Not to mention that many women now have better careers than a lot of men. These really aren't an issue, other than perhaps the emotional side of things, as Instinct mentions.

I also agree very much with the "pick up is a lot more simple than people put it" point. All the gimmicks can be useful to have in your arsenal or even just to know about, but the sooner people realise that you should really be stripping "game" back to the more general principles of 1) Having fun and 2) Escalating sexually, the sooner they will be getting laid more regularly.

Hey man, first of all congrats for starting this flame war as you asked for feedback, I will try to give it in a non judgemental way...

1. fancy car - good DHV, as long as you don't drop hints at it with every second word... "I got in my beemer and floored all them 400 ponies" kind of verbal DHV-ing... chicks dig the fancy car BUT it will raise expectations that your lifestyle matches the ride... no $4.99 menu for two at McDonalds when you drive an expensive car... bottom line, keep it congruent with your persona, clothes, hobbies, places you go to, people you frequent, etc... and don't let haters bring you down, it's a cool car and most of them envy you... grapes are sour if you can't get to them...

2. half used pack of condoms in the centre console - safe sex is smart sex... don't really see that as a DHV, it gives out a player vibe, though... some chicks are attracted, some not... your call...

3. thong under passenger seat - never tried it, but most chicks that found traces of female presence in my apartment were not that happy about it... and I'm talking about a lost earring or cosmetics, not panties... I would lose them... now... and keep the car cleaned and good smelling... that's a big DHV with chicks...

4. wad of cash - screams drug dealer or pimp... wealthy and classy people use high limit credit cards and carry just some small bills for tipping purposes, like $5 bills for the parking valet or doorman and a few $20 bills for cab fare...

Bottom line is: you "dress for your own version of success", the quality of women you attract is strongly correlated with the signals you send out... if Jersey Shore is your game, you're doing a great job