Hey guys, I could use your opinions on something... there it goes... I was at a coffee shop with a friend of mine when he approached a set of two chicks, which I will call Glasses and Nails. I ended up winging for my friend whom had taken a keen interest in Glasses. Nails was not that sociable and within the first five minutes I found out she was married, presumably unhappily... We bounced to a club where we spent about an hour and a half drinking (all except me as I was driving) and dancing. Nails loosened up and started asking me a ton of questions, a bit too serious for a night out. I wasn't that attracted anyway so I was polite and nice enough to keep her busy while my friend was working his stuff on Glasses....

Time to leave the club, so we were waiting outside the club for Wing and Glasses, when we started making out leaning against a wall. We left together and I dropped Wing and Glasses at a lounge where they wanted to have another drink and I was about to drive Nails to her place when she said she doesn't really want to go home. I was still not that interested, but I said casually "Let's go to my place" and she didn't argue. We arrived, I poured a glass of red wine and we started making out again. For the next hour or so, we were dry humping, kissing, she grabbed my cock, basically everything short of sex... I was as pushy as I have ever been, stopping barely before ripping her clothes off... and yet she resisted... I pulled a couple of freeze outs, no effect...

Eventually she wanted to leave, so I called her a taxi and watched in disbelief as she walked to the door... this has happened to me so seldom that I have trouble recalling the last time... Fast forward a couple of days later, Wing goes out on a date with Glasses, and she tells him the story above, as told by Nails, with the finishing sentence "He should have pushed harder and she would have slept with him"!

The question is: where do you draw the line between macho and date rape? Was she serious about me not being pushy enough or it was a reverse buyer's remorse (when you are sorry for NOT buying when you had the chance)? I am at a loss here guys, help me understand... Thanks!

Man, I draw the line at her being married. Why you gotta be fooling around with some dude's wife when there is plenty of single pussy out there?
And you gotta be careful when you start getting in the gray area of her playing hard to get or her just not wanting it. I will keep trying if a girl stays on my bed and isn't leaving, I figure she is still considering sex. But when she says no ya gotta step off for a while. I don't want some girl rationalizing after that I raped her because no cop or jury will take my side if it's her word against mine.

Well, man, the honest answer to the first question is that she was there and seemed like an easy lay... Married or not... second, you are absolutely right, no woman is worth the risk of legal troubles... Thanks for your feedback!

No problem.
I realize it's much easier for me to say on here that I won't bang a married chick, but it's a different story when I'm wanting to get laid, the girl is hot and easy and right under my nose. I can do my best to avoid it though, but hey we are only human.