Had to flake on her. How to recover?



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PostPosted: Wed Nov 27, 2013 9:00 pm 
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Been gaming this girl. She has flaked on me 3 times, I flaked on her once before. Already went out on a group hangout. Was friendzoned with her, now working on busting out.
A group of mutual friends are going to a disco today and she asked me to come with. Thing is, I have to work early in the morning and the place is almost 1 hours drive away. We live close, so her idea was that we went and came together. Unfortunately I had to flake, and explained her the reason. Don't know if she went or not.
How do I proceed?


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PostPosted: Thu Nov 28, 2013 2:44 am 
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If you got mutual friends then just keep traxk if whats going on and ESCALATE next time you see her.

In the meantime game other girls.

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PostPosted: Thu Nov 28, 2013 3:50 pm 
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She ended up going. I was thinking of turning it in my favour and sending her something like. "Sorry I had to work, but you know how it is. Anyway, let me make it up to you..." and try to turn that on a 1 on 1 next weekend. You think it will work? We have previously flaked on one another, but if she wasn't interested, she woudn't have called me... right?


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PostPosted: Thu Nov 28, 2013 5:13 pm 
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Shoulda just said,
"Fuck i had work"

Then a couple days later just make plans to hang out

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