Girl, want her, she went out last night, invited me, didn't go was at a party. She messaged me and called me aka pestering me to join her. This morning:

Her: Martinhoe <My name is Martin, she randomly gave me this nickname.
Her: Sorry I was pesterous last night, I was smashed!
Her: I left everything at the club, passport, bag, everything.
Her: I did get with someone with spectacular facial hair tho. <shit test?
Her: So I guess it was all worth it?
Me: Weren't pesterous, others have done much worse to get me out.

I'm very overthinking with girls I actually consider to be cute/relationship worthy. I'm acting like other guys and her doesn't effect me/trying to be non-AFC as possible.

However due to my past experiences with girls I've actually liked I get overthinking and such as I've been with some mindfucking/manipulative girls before.

Nothing. Absolutely nothing.

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Agree. Nothing. And for what it's worth, I think you handled it good.

That was a huge, stinky, brown shit test.

And congrats, you passed it!
HBs often operate on this weird dynamic of jealous and backhanded jabs. Individually they're all wonderful, but in a group they often will often indulge in their darker sides.

Don't hit her up for a week or so. This signals you're losing interest. If you've played your cards right she'll start hitting you up. Be cool about that.

If you haven't been playing your cards right then just hit her up after that week, but be brief and direct. No need to be supplicant to someone like that.

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No need for freeze out. Why? She did nothing. She just mentioned she went crazy this time. No need to see shit tests everywhere. Dude handled it great anyway. Just continue what you did bro, it's clearly working...

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Shit tests are just ways that you show that what you're boundaries are. In essence everything IS a shit test. He handles it in a great way sure, but the follow through is important too. If he's cool with letting the girl act however she wants then sure, then just leave things status quo.

You want to be tolerant but not condescending or an asshole. Find whatever balance of the two floats your boat.

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As far as I can tell they're not dating or anything like that. Two completely individual persons and both can do whatever. I don't care what the girl does and I won't punish her for sleeping around until we're together because that's common sense...

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Good thing you didn't react to her showoff test.
Keep it that way, you're doing it right.
Get with her and escalate, she sounds pretty easy because she's craving your attention

Thanks for opinion bro. Obviously you didn't read my last post.

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-Slavoj Zizek

This was fucking exemplary, cracked me up

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could be any of the three, but either way your answer was great!

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