So Ive been dating a HB9. Ive seen her for a month or so. Nothing f close surprisingly yet but last date ended with heavy heavy back seat action. Motor Boating, Dry Sex etc!! Thats okay I kinda like this girl. I have a question as I usually have more intimacy and escalation by this stage.
We just don't get in contact AT ALL during the week. Literally Monday through to Friday. Friday will be like contact day for the coming weekend. Last weekend was the most intimate and comfortable we have been together. I just don't know how to approach the no week contact point. She doesn't even make contact during the week even with her friends. She works long hours, eats and sleeps hahaha Live shes always got back to me if ive called or texted but still! Anyway, how do i approach the contact point this weekend. Should i be the one to contact her again on Friday to arrange our meeting. Or just stall and wait for her for once! To be added: (During the last date i reversed the power in favor for me, and she said at one stage that she likes the chase!)

What an amazing situation dude. You don't have to do any sort of texting, then you get to meet up and mess around.

If you can see whats going on here, its that she's got more game than YOU do.

Everything she's doing, YOU should be doing. Do you see that?

She's keeping you on your toes. She's pushing and pulling, hot/cold. She keeps you wanting more.

Take some notes!

I can sort of see where the last post is coming from. cheers.

She originally asked me out for the first date. Like I'm on good terms with her. We have decided to take it slow with the phone and romantic shit in public. But I do want to see her again this weekend for a 6th time. In the right place i can f.close now i believe. Last Sunday she texted me after our date night (She never initiates the phone or text) saying 'I'm still thinking about last night'.
So it looks as if i am calling the shots on one sense. I just am curious as to whether to contact her in some way for the weekend meet up or not and see if she starts thinking. Its a tough one because i do want to see her but its weird with having no contact. Its as if each week is a new opener and invitation! ADVICE?

Sorry, the last post was pretty broad.

You are in much better shape than what it is. Now I think its just about picking up ur balls and stop overthinking this thing.

She said herself she cant stop thinking about "last night" which means, "you."

I don't see whats wrong with a confident "Saturday, (place), (time)?" Simple is best in most cases and considering shes stupid busy, she would probably appreciate the simplicity of the date request...and it might even make her feel like she should text back words with some more meat. You know what I mean?

So, yes, you are calling the shots. Just take the signs for what they are, and that is that she is very interested in you...so much that she initiated the contact (instead of being a passive texter) and even made it a point to tell you specifically about how great it was that night.

This is the best time to channel some confidence. You know how she feels, you know how you feel, the assumption is that she also knows how you feel to a certain extent...now its just execution. And the execution has become far more easy now that you have all the evidence that you are running shit. Don't think about consistent texting/contact, think about how you're going to blow her mind after the date.

Good luck man.

thanks mate. I appreciate your post.

I completely understand what your talking about and it does make sense. The text/phone game is merely not as important in my current situation. What important is keeping that spark/tension and escalating further. Its just new to me because I've become a custom to ditsy, easier girls. If that makes sense. This HB9 has goals, is smart, so fit, very hot!. I just feel this way due to that constant silence during the week. But i do get it. Neither of us have ever rejected plans and made sure things happen! So this leads to another question seeming as theres a need to re spark conversation each week.

What to text her tomorrow morning. We will both be working, especially me! Sure i can call her later on after working hours. But would it be best to send something flirt full, sexual, push/pull or just straight to the point like my availability.
Any help blokes? Cheers