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I am new to the community and am working on how to deal with various situations.
I have been talking to this HB9 and she has been giving me some IOI. Today though, she asked me if she should date one of her "okay" ex's to get over a really bad ex. She says she likes the guy but they don't really get along.
How should I handle the situation?
You need to break the cycle you are currently in, she may value your friendship and spending time talking to you, but she is not a romantic interest hence her asking such questions - Its fairly safe to say you're in the friend zone.
It is possible to overcome the friend zone, providing you change your habits with her and mix it up a bit, but it will require a little work and some self restraint.
Here is a decent YouTube video on how to overcome some of the obstacles.
Title: The Friend Zone Destroyer: How Do I Get Out Of The Friend Zone?
Link:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CC_7NfZ1-Js
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