So I'm 17 and I'm sitting in class one day because we had a substitute and there's this girl and she's a 10 for sure and normally if she looks good or scrubs at school I'll acknowledge her w/ either a compliment or I'll neg her on the days she scrubs. She refers to me as an asshole and that I'm always "mean" to her. I swear this chick was flirting with me in class on this day just by the looks she was giving me, so I'm sitting down and she sits by me and believe it or not this girl has a boyfriend and she pulls out her phone and starts showing me her nudes, I didn't ask any questions. I proceeded to say "if you ever need a rebound after you and your boyfriend break up, I'm your man" she responded (IOI) "Well if you tell anyone about this you then you won't be my rebound" and smiled

So a few minutes go by and I straight out said "send me these" and she was like "Nooo I don't wanna look like a slut" "I have a boyfriend" and all of that **** and I'm thinking to myself, you're the one that was just showing me your nudes like it actually matters so with that mindset I kept going at it by repeating my phone # out loud so she'd know where to send them even though she already has my #

So I texted this chick and expected the same answer and that's essentially what I got "I have a boyfriend" "That has slut written all over it" so I ended the convo by saying "you're too fun to fuck with" as if she's irrelevant... Next time I had class with this chick I was waiting for the bell to ring by the door and she puts her lanyard around my neck as she walked up behind me and said "I'm sending you pictures over break, I already have it planned out"

SOOO my question to you guys is... How the fuck did that happen? AND Do I initiate the conversation for these nudes or wait for her to send them?

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Escalate and fuck her silly boy

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You're moving beyond the phase into something where you need to tone down the cockyness in your responses.

For her to send you nudes is a BIG RISK to her. She's going out on a limb, and you have to show her the respect she deserves.

Keep the cocky friendly attitude that's got you here, but on the topic of the nudes, I'd be responding with some very positive comments, like "wow I love how perky your breasts are" (if they are small and perky) etc. stuff like that. She needs to be "rewarded" for this.

It's possible you're only posting because you're not sure what to do in this phase and aren't sure if just continuing to be cocky will cut it - and that's EXACTLY RIGHT. If you be cocky at the wrong time, like neg her for her nude pics... oh no. The whole thing will be destroyed and you will be dead to her, that's it. Plus you may have almost permanently destroyed some of her self confidence.


And if she's got a boyfriend, well she's probably getting ready to move on. A lot of girls never actually dump their last boyfriend till they've pretty much got their next one set up, they just don't like to be alone. Be sensitive about this but you can also be confident she wants to move onto you.

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dont ask her again

be cool bro she volunteered them in class the first day she wants you to see them. if you think she's going cold and changed her mind send her a pic of yourself, something simple and inoffensive and she'll escalate then in exchange

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