On halloween my best friend and wingman showed a recently single friend of his gf's my FB profile (I was unwell and at home) and she added me and we got chatting, a week later we meet up and kiss and fool around, but no sex as it was our first meeting which was understandable to me. The following weekend I went out and met up with her, made out a lot and ended up being dragged to a gay bar with her gay best friend (I don't have an issue with gay people whatsoever other than they don't seem to stop partying and I was tired lol.)
FINALLY we leave but some AFC orbiter comes with us saying he's gonna look after her and obviously viewing me as an opportunistic rapist, but being faux-friendly. Imagine someone almost impossibly beta, and you can picture him. He bought us both a pizza and paid for our cab back to her place! Seriously. The three of us get inside, eventually she goes to bed and texts me telling me to get rid of him and come join her. He keeps chewing my ear off and stalling me and ignoring my suggestions that "its late I'm gonna turn in, have a nice walk home, nice meeting you" until he eventually asks me which sofa I want to sleep on. I got a bit annoyed and told him she came out to see me (she did) and that I was sleeping in her room and I showed him the texts.
I go and get into her bed, but he is actually standing outside her room repeatedly asking her if she is ok and if she needs some water etc. After much sulking and "Do you want me to leaves?" he FINALLY goes home at like 7am.
The point of this backstory? Well, I was exhausted and drunk so when it came to fooling around and having sex, I lost my boner during the awkward condom interlude and we both ended up asleep, she was pissed off.
The next day she apologised for being a bitch to me and I was cool and unaffected and even made jokes about it "get some viagra next time haha" and I think I saved the situation since she still contacts me regularly and we flirt and stuff.
I'm not 100% sure I'm not friendzoned since she hasn't rescheduled... So my question is, did I handle this embarrassing situation well? I basically didn't mention it except to shrug it off if she did. How is it likely to affect her? Any other whiskey dick stories to share?
Secondly, how about handling a beta orbiter? This guy was EXTREME. He phoned her whilst we were in bed and basically professed his love, and the next day at work he asked if he could come round hers after to discuss me, lmao! But I feel I could have handled it smoother and perhaps lost my cool out of sheer tiredness and frustration with him.
NOTE: If I wasn't already sleeping with another girl, I think perhaps it would have negatively affected me more.
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