So I'm dating a hottie an 8, she's a junior lawyer so she gets thrown work at the last minute all the time. I just need advise on how to own her ass because she's getting complicated.

We've been out on 4 dates, she broke the last one because of work but she did say she could do a quick coffee instead. We did have that coffee anyway so it wasn't really broken.

Thing is, we have kissed and we're close like holding hands when we're out on dates. We laugh and have lots of fun.

It's just that in between dates, we don't talk or message or contact each other at all. She does send occasional texts but this is really really really rare out of the 1.5 mths we've been going out. I hate girls that play games so I spoke to her about it the last time we had that coffee. (I felt she was playing games because sometimes when I call her to ask her out on a date. She doesn't pick up the call and calls me back a day later or sends a text in return even though she can be online her social chat or FB)

She said that she feels shameless asking me out and all. Which I totally understand so I did put myself out alittle more. Like texts on how she's doing occasionally. But she doesn't reciprocate by trying to find out how my day goes and all.

She does however ask me out occasionally. Like asking me out on a Saturday which I turned down because i had something on. So what's up with this girl?

She likes me but plays it so damn cool. Should I move on or should I fight the fight with fire?

Any advice is good. And if any brothers had experience with similar female psyche, please share your thoughts of wisdom!

Cheers

Have you fucked her yet? Because therein lies your answer.

Lol!! I've always been a follower to Doc Love.. Not much content in getting her to bed...

Anyone advice on getting this cat in the sack?

Stop wasting time with dates. In 12 years of being sexually active, I have never once been on a dinner date.

Invite her over. Butter her up with sexual texts. Have sex. That's your answer.

If in doubt, the answer is usually sex.

Haha can anyone else give me more advice apart from the sex bit?

I appreciate that thought though.. Will totally escalate more with her..

It's the only sound advice. Private location - escalate - sex. You mentioned she gives off a vibe of playing it cool; that could be because she doesn't know if you even really like her all that much.

You've waited too long to pull the trigger. 4x dates in 1.5 months and no shag??

She wants you to take charge and invite her over. Tell her to bring a bottle of wine.

If she doesn't respond, fuck it. Don't waste your time with frigid women. Except in this case, she's not frigid, she is just beginning to wonder if you even have a penis, let alone a sex drive.

Haha ok guys..

I've had some romantic escapades with her.. I'm sure she knows I like her..

But anyway I'm new to kino escalation and all. Can you guys give me some good advice on how to pull this one off when I have her in a social setting, get her primed for some sexy time when I get her back to my place?

Thanks guys for the awesome help.

You basically just need to have a good time, and near the end, have an idea of something to do at your house that she might like. A movie that's somewhere in her interests, or just something you think is really awesome.

My regular thing was taking them back to my house for video games. I have such a variety of video games, all kinds of wacky stuff (Eg. Katamari) that I've found some tie-in with what we were talking about or experiencing and saying "man this is just like that game X, you have to play it" and always spin it that it's something that a non-gamer can play, so dont' worry. Katamari was because the art sculptures we were looking at reminded me of the Katamari world, and I said if she likes that she'll love this game, it's looks just like that world, another girl was into murder mysteries and I used L.A. Noire as something she should play.

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