| Hi everybody,
At first I have to apologize for my English. I am from Germany, but I try to write this thread as good as possible.
This is my field report section which will describe my way in the Pick-Up community. I have discovered the Pick-Up-Community two years ago, when I read the book from Mystery. Since then I used many of the concepts of the book, especially in my circle of friends. Unfortunately I always had problems with talking to strangers (which is kind of a German habit).
To solve this problem I want to make a recommencement.
I have used the motivational-concepts of Richard Wiseman (from his Book: 59 Seconds: How Psychology Can Improve Your Life in Less Than a Minute) to develop a 5-Step-Pick-Up-Workout for myself. I will check my progress with an Excel-Sheet I developed.
Step 1/5 – Get out of the house
The next time you go to an A-Location, do at least 3 Sets. Concentrate on your opener and bodyrocking. (3 sets may sound too little, but considering the level of my game and the fact that a city in Germany with 200.000 residents didn’t offer as much A-Locations as LA, it could be okay)
Step 2/5 – Overcome AA
The next 10 times you go to an A-Location, do at least 3 Sets per visit. Get your material ready. Use two different Openers at least 10 times. Use your A1 – C1 material at least 10 times.
Step 3/5 – Getting comfortable with the material
The next 20 times you go to an A-Location, do at least 3 Sets per visit. Make sure that your Day-2-Rate has improved (checked via Excel)
Step 4/5 – Creating a Social Circle
The next 20 times you go to an A-Location, do at least 3 Sets per visit. Improve the Comfort-Phase so you can turn Sets into LTR’s or Friends
Step 5/5 – Getting comfortable with the material
The next 35 times you go to an A-Location, do at least 3 Sets per visit. Improve every Part of your game via Micro-Calibration.
This is my gross planning for my development from AFC to PUA
My Game-plan is like this (developed with the Mystery Method):
A1 Barbershop Opener
Me: Hey, Guy´s, I need a quick opinion. What do you think about this? (showing rings on my fingers)
Girl: looks cool/gay or sth.
Me: I need to go back to my friends in a second. The last time I was at the barbershop, I got my hair cut from a gay Hispanic guy. He has washed my hair really tender. To make matters worse he began to shave my eyebrows and facial hair without asking me. At the end I looked like Harald Glööckler (gay German designer who looks really funny). The thing is a friend of mine thinks that the barber thought I was gay, because the rings on my fingers are a secret gay-code.
Girl: Maybe you misinterpreted the barber’s intentions.
Me: Unfortunately not….
A2 DHV Bodylanguage-Expert
… I am kind of a body language expert. I have seen that this guy wanted to hit on me. I’ve once held a seminar about body language at the university in Mainz, which taught me to sharpen my senses. I can show you some fancy things. Here hold this for a second, I’ll show you, that your body and your mind are one (giving my necklace, which is a Ring on a strand to lock her in and later isolate her)But that reminds me when I first get aware of peoples body language…
A2 DHV Bodylanguage
… It was when I was together with my ex-girlfriend. She lost her identification badge for the fitness centre he worked out. She went completely crazy because she trained 3 times a week. I calmed her down. At the evening she got a message on Facebook from a guy looking like Justin Bieber: “Hey I found your identification badge from the fitness-centre. I would like to invite you for dinner to give it back to you.”
She freaked out again, and I told her to arrange a meeting at the park. When the two of us went to the park I told my friends from the kickboxing gym I trained, to stay alert on their cell phone, just in case there where any trouble. When we arrived there was a group of teenagers, one of them where playing guitar, the other sitting in a circle. The musician was the secret devotee of my ex. As he noticed us I closely analyzed his body language. In case of a brawl it would have been ten on one, but I very quickly realized that he just was disappointed, because his aspirations had been crushed. When I saw it I nearly felt sorry for him…
By that time I should have negged the target 2-3 times with some standard negs:
• Where is her off button.
• You can dress her up but you can’t take her anywhere.
• Hey don’t touch the merchandise, this shit isn’t for free.
A3 Pendulum Routine
… Ok let me show your friend something cool. We are right over there. (sitting down with her) Take out the necklace, I gave you. But at first imagine, a fairy comes by and you could be anything you want to be. What would you be? And don’t say princess … …
… … I’ll show you now, that your mind and your body are one. Extend your arm and hold the necklace straight. Just think about the ring starting to circle (ring starts to circle). Ok now imagine the ring stops (ring stops). Now imagine the ring going back and forth (ring going back and forth)…
Second part of my game-plan will be added soon. I am looking forward to your feedback.
Give my regards to you all.
Vasco
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