hi guys. i am a very newbie on this. i have read ''mystery method'' and ''the game'' and ''rules of game''. I have yet to start applying this in the field and looking for some latest canned material and routines. i am not a very social kind of guy and doesnt have lots of stuff to talk about. i have been going out for sometime and have improved a little on approaching but yet to start the game the way its supposed to be. and like most of the newbies i get stuck for words as i just freeze for what to say. so i have been reading and looking for canned material and strictly use it to start the process and like mystery said then pattern will emerge.

i would like you guys where i can find the exact wording openers, dhv stories, qualifying, and disqualifying stories exact wording which i can use for the start. as whenever i approach my mind is completely blank for what to say.

i have been looking around for a week now for this stuff but haven't found one whole stack which can last me atleast 15-20 minutes if i can pass the hook point.

and also if you could recommend a non-commercial bootcamp or instructor in London who can give me a push start in to the game .

i know for me its a long way to go.

your reply will be very much appreciated.

Well, those probably are the best books about PU ever, probably, depends on your preferences and personality, so they're good to start I believe. But anyways, recently, Mystery has changed a bit this thing about Canned Material, haven't you read the Venusian Arts Handbook or Revelation? He still uses some Canned Routines and stuff, but he now speaks about creating for yourself that way of being, being naturally attractive, having an attractive personality. I would suggest you to instead read this book, Revelation, which is fucking mint.

Luck.

really appreciate your reply to the post.

as i posted before i am kind of a new born into this and need some really basic material to start with for atleats couple of months. for last couple of months been going out a lot trying to learn night game at the moment as i think its a bit easier then the rest as girls are in more social mood than day game.

i will look into revelation and see how it goes.

i am also considering a bootcamp but i am looking for a non-commercial pua instructor in london. the pua business has become quite professional and i think these big names are more after money than teaching sincerely after lots of reviews i read about them.

Welcome to the community!

Personally, canned material never worked for me. It tends to spark interest until she finds out that beyond the canned one-liners you have nothing to offer.

Here's what did wonders:

Sit down with a piece of paper or a notebook.

Write down what kind of person you would like to meet. What are her hobbies? interests? What kind of family does she come from? Siblings? What are the "must haves" and "big no-nos" BE AS DETAILED AS YOU CAN
That's the key! This will allow you to look for signs/signals if she is interested and if you are compatible.

Write down YOUR OWN cool stories. Vacations, hangouts, meetings, funny/embarrassing situations etc...
Practice story telling. I can tell you a very exciting story about me standing in line in a grocery store or a boring story about an exotic vacation. Which would you prefer?

Practice observation. You can get a lot of information about the person just by observation before she even opens her mouth! This can give you plenty of stuff to talk about and will allow you to connect with a girl on a much deeper level a lot quicker.

I know this is somewhat general but I'm sure you can figure it out.

I had a great mentor and I strongly encourage you to find one in your area. It doesn't have to be a PUA! Look for a charismatic, confident guy and ask him for advice. Guys love giving advice.

Hope this helps!
Al

Some great advice there afcAL.

Also, I've not heard of that book Revelation that was mentioned by Alsagei. Think i'll have to check that out.

I had one happen earlier this year, and it's happened again, in both cases after failed negs, more or less, and after they each showed fairly high interest in me.

go to youtube and search for adam lyons, gambler, style, mystery... workshops and everything you can find and write down what ever you find you can pull. make a plan you can stick to it ( opener, opener, opener, neg, game etc), no improv, build a few routines (3-4) and rotate them.

here is what i like to do and i say this in same exact order:
opener1: hey, you look like you're having fun...(say right away the next opener)
opener2: can you help me with an opinion? What do you think about tattoos(or whatever)?
opener3: you are really frendly....neg: i like your color hair, is it real? anyway looks great!
game1:5 questions( by style) and make her to buy me a drink or to take a pic with me only if i win.
game2:i say this exact thing: "how ODD, black(or what ever color she's wearing) is my favorite, do me a favor and pick a number from 1 to 10, don't say it and think it. You can choose 1, 3, 5 doesn't matter... Is it 9?" it doesn't matter what number she picks (usually is 9) after i hi5 her and start having a real conversation by asking her: "tell me something you would nerver say on first date" and after a few minutes(about 3) i stop her and make her to take the cube (by style)... after this you can do pretty much everything( kino, talk, ask for number)

choose easy targets to practice, even on your female friends.