Pebble ^^^^ knows what he is talking about. All approach/initial attraction in the loud night club environment is non verbal. Once you get her near you, thats when u can game and get verbal. Dont pay too much attention to the "leaning in" aspect, cuz its gonna happen. Its loud, theres a height difference between you two, etc. Avoid the face to face leaning in though, try to keep it shoulder to shoulder.

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Get some.

Openers for a really loud nightclub is somewhat akin to asking what pictures to show a blind girl.

The reason standard openers aren't working is because she either cant hear you or its a location that seems inappropriate to talk. You cant get her to go somewhere with you until you have sparked something and you cant verbally spark much if she cant hear you.

I would say dont approach girls on the dance floor, do it in a quieter more social area of the club or look for a better club.

Its definitely possible to get girls on the dance floor but my feeling is that you have to be a good dancer and you have to look really good, because what else can you convey? She cant hear you. You cant neutralise her friends as they cant hear you so all your left with is how you look, how you dance and who your with.

I dont think Im good looking enough to pull it off as Im not going to be the first guy to come dance by her, she will be surrounded by guys... meh I dosent work for me.

The only times I have had it work were when there werent many people on the dance floor and the majority, if not all were girls, then I am the fun alpha guy but the rest of the time Im the average looking guy with average dancing ability. I dont stand out.

PS girls love being twirled on the dance floor!! if you do start dancing twirl her.. they love it!

Just have a laugh with ya mates and ignore the girls.

That's a consistent way of getting girls to stand near you so you can open.

You can approach a girl in whatever situation, no excuses.

Don't wait till she is in the quiet zone because that's when you procrastinate and never end up approaching because she never leaves her friends

The dancefloor is the perfect place to approach because , not many guys know how to do it!, so learn it and reep the benefits!

You literally don't need to be a good dancer, I spin them around and take her for a drink /outside for fresh air. (Hardly dancing is it?)

The goal is to get them off the dancefloor

Let's be honest, that's where most of the hot chicks go in a club.

Ha! Avoid clubs if you have to rely on approaching in quiet areas lol, common sense guys!

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"Avoid clubs if you have to rely on approaching in quiet area lol, common sense guys!"

Obviously I agree with that on the face of it.

However most of the clubs I go to have 5 or 6 different areas.

The main dancefloor is too loud to chat, but then the bar level (different room) is usually fine, the chillout area is fine, the smoking area is outside and again fine, there are usually corridors where people congregate so I tend to stick to areas where I can talk to people and TBH floorspace wise there is usually more areas that you can talk than hewer you cant.

There is still music but its not at a deafening level.

please watch this m8:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kd3Rs9FxguA

When you are done watch this one also: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kd3Rs9FxguA

After that you watch this one again: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kd3Rs9FxguA

Another way I use is. If theirs a girl in a group I stand behind her with my back. Now most guys would either try to sneaky dance butt to butt with her or say something over her shoulder..

Don't do that.

Instead, you just give her a little bump with your butt jut so she notices it and looks back. Then comes practice part.
If you just putt your hand out like you want her to grab it. Then chances are huge that she won't bite.. You have to subcommunicate ALOT with the way you stand, have your hands out and your face!

So like do a nice funny begging kinda pose with 2 hands and have a cheesy smile. After that you just pull her in and spin her around.

Fair enough, but quick question.

You walk into the club, and you See the most beautiful woman of your life , but she is on the dancefloor , what do you do?

Do you wait all night till she leaves the club and then approach her outside? 20,000 seconds rule? ;p

The way I see it, it's your duty to learn the ways of approaching anywhere, wherever it be daytime shopping malls , dancefloor or even online game.

Learn all the ways as possible, because you will one day miss out on the love of your life and you will regret sticking to comfort zones and not taking the time to educate yourself into learning how to do it in most situations that you don't like.

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My friends and I have found that you can't consistently run long sets with good results, in bars or clubs with 'regulars'.. They are not accustomed to people coming in and taking over their group.
Instead, just go up, say a quick funny/playful thing, and leave.. do this several times, until the girls come back and approach you.. otherwise they get uncomfortable.. this way is much better, and the only way that I know of to do clubs with regulars.
You will find that if you go around the venue just MINGLING like this, by the end of the night if you've initiated 30 girls, at least 5 will come back to you who are interested, and make it very easy to extract from the club.

You would have a point if Pebble was approaching women in a library, but he's not. The context is a night club. Girls get tarted up for a night out; which means high heels, an inch layer of makeup, revealing clothes. They want to get seduced. The girls who are down-to-fuck are pretty obvious and usually on the dancefloor. The quiet conversational types you're talking about are in Boring Corner, talking to bearded hipsters with fake glasses. Feel free to spend the night discussing women's rights and getting NOWHERE NEAR her hairy feminist minge until Date #7.

All women think about is having sex too. Quickest way to get dumped by your girlfriend? Stop fucking her.

Women love sex as much as we do. I've been used by women for sex many times, I've even been passed around a social circle of girls like a piece of meat. But did I complain about being treated like an object? Did I question the morality? Did they? No, no and no. If you want deep intellectual girls, you're not going to find them in a loud club on the dancefloor. Search on tumblr or meet in a library if you can't handle wading knee-deep in club poon.

A typical girl could find that creepy and perverted especially if she is not naturally attracted to you. Don't you think you'd need to cut out the "It's really loud" part because it kills the energy. The rest of the opener is too out there in her face. You can do better with something like "Care for a [put sexually suggestive dance that you find attractive]" and grab her by the waist and start kinoing. Only start talking when you are grabbing a smoke or at the bar. Other than that, make everything physical. Tease her to comfortably seduce her and do not be too grabby and touchy unless you have escalated well and she has responded positively. It would be ideal if your opener would be physical (utilising eye contact and other means of body language). That way you can easily move to a gambit. A tease would be a good template for creating a physical opener.

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You have the game. Game in a club, a bar and other social gatherings requires on-the-spot adjustment to your game.

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