Day 193
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30 Day Daygame challenge - Day 2
Rules: Go out in daytime approach 5 girls each day, an approach is defined to be making a solid effort to try to talk to the girl. At least 5 seconds of trying to get her to stop or react, for it to count as an approach. The only time one doesn't have to approach 5 times if they have a solid interaction with one girl that lasts over 10 minutes. We are also planning to add more rules as we get further.
Today I did well more than 5 approaches so ill just include some of the interesting ones!
Approach 1 - Drama
As I was sitting down with my friends, I saw a sophisticated, cute looking girl walking past. She stopped so compliantly, she wasn't sure if I was selling her something. Though I was very clear with my intent, she mentioned how I would make a really good sales person. I stood for a while speaking non-sense to her, no matter what I said she wasn't moving. First attempt to get her number she gave me some token resistance, then after giving her some insight on why I wanted her number, she gave it too me. She qualified herself a few times, first saying oh no your to old for me (disqualify), but when I actually told her my age she said that I was a good age for her. It was all going well, and just as I started getting a little more intimate, aka touching her. A girl comes storming in, whom I identify as a girl I was seeings friend whom never liked me. But to make it worse that girl has seen this blog and told all her friends.
So straight away, I knew what potentially was about to happen, so I didn't greet her or give her any value. She started trying to tell the girl about my website, and explain that I will blog about this later, the way I deal with this is, the mentality of I don't know who this girl is but ill play along with it as a joke. So I just agree with everything she says, making it all look put on, the girl attacking here, then realises this and says "I cant believe you are brushing this all off", and starts to get more aggressive, I then start to get a little worried, and signal over my friends. Whom come over straight away, and completely disarm her, till she leaves.
I then tell the girl that shes friend with my ex girlfriend whom hates me, and she does this all the time, she does this all the time. The girl says to me "its okay we arnt having sex", im not sure how I should of read this, but I kind of saw it as a good thing, knowing she was thinking about that, however it could of been a genuine comment. So I still had her there after that still eating out of the palm of my hand. I know she was quite into the whole thing, but after she leaves, her logical mind will kick back in, simply because there was too much drama.
Other Approaches
I approached a hipster looking girl, spoke to her for a while, went well, couldn't number close her though, as she has been approached in this exact spot too many times, and it feels weird. Approached a girl whom blew me out instantly by saying I have already approached her, despite not doing daygame in ages. Made a girls day whom has a boyfriend. Me and my friends were in a big set for a while, we merged a bunch of other sets into it aswell, one of the first proper merges done in daygame. Didn't write anything about all of these, purely because the first approach was so long.
Night-Game
Pull - 1
Soon I had a girl messaging me, really wanting to meet me, sending me non stop messages, she wanted me to come and get her, but I made her walk down to where I was. She was with a friend, whom was not attractive at all. She kept pushing me to come to a venue with her, I didn't really want to go. I got them to come to a venue I had free entry at, they both had to pay, while I was there I approached while they went to the toilets, I then had a few missed calls from the girl. She jumped on me when she saw me, her friend tried to pull get her to go with her. But she said i'm not going anywhere, I don't want to lose him, and simply would not budge. She really wanted me to goto a that venue for her, first I got her to go through some of my hoops, insisting she needed to come with me to my house to get something "my ID".
As I was walking them to my house, I walked past my mate who was just coming down with a girl, our girls talked to each other briefly. As we got the the house, I just and lyed down, there was nothing I actually needed to get, the girl loved my house, and then went to go on about how she wanted to move in. She came and lyed down next to me, but her friend was there the whole time, going for anything now, would possibly blow me out, as it was early + her friend was there. I then hesitantly went to the venue with them. When we got there, she just wanted to sit down and drink, I couldn't be bothered doing that for 4 hours.
I went and approached, brought over a girl to meet her, at this point she looked really mad, and told the girl to go away, after the girl left, she went super cold. I then made the decision to come back later in the night.... 4 hours later I came back, she was dancing, but she didn't want to leave yet, and I knew if I left I wouldn't get back in, as there is a lock out. I just left not wanting to waste the rest of my night.
Intermission
Towards the end of the night, I met up with 16 year old MPUA, managed to get him into clubs earlier. He had hooked some really hot girls, hes really good at hooking girls. As we were walking past the dance floor, where this is a barrier in between the dance floor and where you walk past. I touched a girls arm whom was dancing over that barrier, she turned around and stopped dancing, after exchanging a few words, I instant made out with her, and called her off the dance floor. I then went outside with her. Convinced her to come to an after party, she was with a friend and she just left... So she was isolated just like that, however a chodey guy was just standing there looking at her for a good 20 minutes. She was ignoring him, but my boy addressed him, this caused the girl to notice him, turns out it was her chodey friend, and he was taking her home.... So she left, didn't number close her or anything.
Pull - 2
At the end of the night, just as we were leaving, me and my boy, bumped into a girl I keep bumping into, whom has been meaning to come over for ages. Shes pretty hot, and tells us about her sex stories constantly. She was with a guy, but I thought why not, I told her to come over, she agreed, and told me to message her when I wanted to leave. Not too long after we messaged her, she came out the club, where we walked her back. The plan was me and my boy were going to double team her, so I walked her back to the house, holding her hand on the way. Listening to my boys advice to stay chill, not to create any drama. When we got back, we sat down on the couch for a bit, with her, she then went and said hi to my house mates, she was in a very energetic state.
This is where the problem started, I was intending to just relax for a bit, but my boy was telling me to turn it on. When my house mates, Big D and Pluki came out, it started to become a frame battle. Pluki was chilled out and just wanted to talk to her. Big D was fighting for her attention, my boy was telling me to amp it up the whole time. By the time I did go to amp it up, it wasn't congruent, and Big D called her over, saying that he was safe. She came into my room, but was constantly baited away from my by Big D, playing a different frame. This constant frame, battle caused her to want to go outside for a smoke, Big D then dismissed her and set the frame that she was leaving, and to not come back. She then left, even though initially she was going to come back up.
Later Big D did apologize, as he felt like puppy getting excited in the moment, jumping in the bin, but then feeling bad after realising he made a huge mess. In reality half of it was my fault, not going with a proper frame. Perhaps this was a blessing in disguise.
Bradicus out