These both happened back to back days and I feel great about them!

Day 1 kiss close.
Old friend of mine saw me in my car and texted me asking if it was me and how i was doing. This lead to us hanging out at wall mart. Ive only actually met this girl in person once back in my AFC days, we have only texted until yesterday. Well we met up at wall mart and i was only able to spend 45 minutes with her, so when the time ended I gave her a hug good bye, pointed to my cheek and said "kiss good bye" It worked.

Day 2
I went up to the college with some of my bro's and we went to the library, Their was a 2 set of hb 6 and hb7 at the table. My friend and i knew the hb6 so he started to talk to her with my other friend. I opened the hb7 easily because her friend introduced me as the guy with the cool car. We got to chit chatting and I gave myself a time limit, told her we where leaving to get food in about 15-20. At the end of our conversation I looked at her and said "Ive got to get going but anyway we can continue this conversation later?" she said "yea of course" I handed her my phone and it was done!

Good 2 days!

Well done buddy. Good start. How are you going to set up a day 2?
Beyond general small talk what did you find out about either girl?

-Jack

Havent Heard from number close, She never replied to my texts so i just let it be.

Kiss close however came by today on the way home from work, she Wasnt feeling well but came anyway. We talked for a bit, then she turned on the lights in the car to ask me if her eyes where irritated cause they where itching, she did Locked eyes...MIGHT have been a good time to go in for the kiss...but it didnt feel right + she was sick. She only stayed for 10 minutes but when it was time to go she got out of the car to give me a hug good bye. It was a long as hug too.

Kiss close we will call her Alice. She is into tuner cars, even recognized my ring tone was a turbo. She is pretty cool a solid 6hb no doubt she likes to talk...ALOT. Im not looking for anything serious with her. I dont want a steady girl friend. I dont do good in stable relationships....from all past 2 experiences they ended badly and we were both very unhappy.

-Z

I'll be honest I could've told you the # close wouldn't reply. It was a soft close to me. I remember my first rAFC # close. It was in a club in Scotland in 2007 and after some stupid opener and rushed lines I got a number and bailed. My heart was pounding the whole time. She bailed too. In fact so did the next 20. It's only now that I'm getting solid HB7+ #'s that will definitely text back. The main thing is that you're moving out of AFC territory and actively putting yourself out there.

As for Alice in the car; there is a rule in pick up which I definitely believe in and is so very, very useful when you're starting out.
'If you think you should be kissing her then you should be kissing her!!'
Once you start acting smoothly when you reach that point (and it can come at ANY point) then you'll start making serious progress. So what is your plan for Alice? Sounds like a solid lead and if anything great practice.

- Jack

Truthfully not too surprised by the lack of reply from the number close. Still glad I did it none the less, a step in the right direction.

As for Alice, I Havent seen her since the meet up in the car, gave her a call the other night for a few minutes just to chat. Not sure where it is going to go at this point.

There doesn't have to be anything. Leave it and go out get more girls. It took me a long time and I burned a lot of solid closes but an important lesson is you NEVER want to be too available. If it feels like it's not going anywhere then leave it for a bit. Pick it up again later. Otherwise it will get flat. By leaving it she could be wondering what you've been doing instead.

That's what I'm doing with a particular girl I'm 'seeing'. I know it will work.

Get more girls!!

- Jack