Morning all

Just here for a bit of advice really.

What would you think the best way of isolating a girl is? Say from the dance floor where it is too loud to chat or from a huge group in another side of the room. I always find my best results have come from where I have been able to connect during a cheeky 5-10 minute chat.

I just dont really have an idea how to get women away from their groups. I would say am above average looks/build and get lots of good eye contact I am just not great at acting on it. Do you need to build comfort before you can isolate? or is strong IOI enough to try it?

Also whilst I am here, does anybody have any general advice for avoiding gaps in convo when 1 on 1.

Any ideas would be much appreciated.

Isolating: "I can't hear you let's go over here" said with confidence should be enough. If u can feel she's totally into the chat then that's all you need to isolate in my experience.

Convo gaps: Ask her questions. Have themes of questions in case u run out. Girls love to chat about themselves.

There is a video on Youtube about 'shuffling'. I think that's what you're asking about. Try that. I think the channel is Simple Pickup.

That, or the fact that women tend to stick together in groups as a heirarchy/class structure for support or security. You might have to assert 'dominance' and ignore the group if you get pushback.

If you make a conscious effort to ignore the group, its the same as seeing a single girl in a crowd. No different. You're not battling them. They should mean nothing to you or your game.

-WY

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WGY

"Do you have some good openers for Chinese girls?"
"They usually don't need an opener. Most of them are the pull-tab kind."

Don't GAF, just DGAF (think about it)

Fear is the mind killer. Anger is the mood killer.

You can't always isolate a girl. In a 2 set, you will be leaving her friend all by herself. In larger set, winning over the entire group is very important. If they don't feel comfortable with you, they could prevent her friend from leaving "Where are you going with that creep?"
Other than that, all you have to say to the set is "I will steal your friend for a second."

Al

Well I always put my arm at her back and start slowly walking towards a couch or wherever I want to take her.
If she asks me where are we going ?
I reply: Don't worry. Trust me.
If she asks again just make up a good excuse why to go somewhere.
Smoke a Cigarette, Its too loud, I really need to show you this Italian restaurant etc...

please excuse my bad English im german