Well its been couple days since i last updated this thread. But alot happened today so i had to share my mind.
I wont copy paste the whole conversation since they are getting longer and longer... so will just summarize and point what i might have done wrong and what went well.
I did talk with her 2more times.
1st it was mostly just a chit chat nothing important mostly about our lives.
as i wrote before i am about to go on her performance so she asked how many tickets i wanted. I said 2 still need to decide if i will take somebody with me or go just by myself. I thought i will take a girl with me as a social proof but from my recent discoveries i think it might not be necessary but i will come to that in a sec.
So our today chat.
I used one of the openners i found here
"Sweet, charming, gorgeous, lovable... Well, enough about me. How are you? :p"
worked pretty well i didnt want to just go with hey how you doing wanted something funny. She laughed a bit and we started to talk. At first i felt like the conversation is going nowhere so i made foolish attempt since i wanted to ask her today to go out with me i told her i will be in here city (which is like 30km from mine) on Tuesday that if she got no plans we can meet up. She said she has like 1.5 hour window around 4 pm so i told her to text me when she is done and since i have meetings there i will tell her if i am done as well. (didnt want to ask for her number as i didnt felt like the conversation went good enough. As i said kind of foolish attempt. We agreed that "we will see". Such a fail

. yet my old me would just quit the conversation and felt bad that i failed again thx to this community i continued chating. I acted like last couple sentences didnt even exist and we exchanged couple more texts. Then i started to talk about my cat... in my mind i was like wtf am i talking about but then i saw the light

(yea so poetic) .
Here is what happened!
ME: she always come to cudle arround my leg when she wants to eat

she is almost the same as girls

HER:
haha not all the girls do that i guess

but at least she knows how to handle boys haha
ME:

and what about u... do u know how to handle man?
HER:
i will never know

haha
ME:
never? why?
HER:
its just so difficult for me

ME:
what exactly u mean? i am confused

i thought every girl knows
HER:
no i dont know so that means not every girl knows it

ME:
u never had a boyfriend? (i got really curious its been very long time since i met girl like this but i wanted to make sure)
HER:
haha good question

ME:
answer would be much better

HER:
not really:P
ME:

(and i went silent and after couple minutes)
HER:
well ok i would say no

ME:
thats nothing you should hide ... its nice

HER:
well i kind of had one but it wasnt really like in a relationship so thats why i would say no
We exchanged couple more texts and i said i need to go.
So as i said i wanted to take some other girl with me to her performance now i dont think it will be necessary she never had a boyfriend i think she is virgin as well so i need to rethink how to handle this since she isnt spoiled like most girl in my country.
Conclusion from today:
1st) No matter how the conversation goes and what are u talking about u can always turn in into something great.
2nd) I am starting to like this girl even more because since i returned from USA (2 moths ago) i was sick of the girls that got used to be chased by guys whole day who think of themselves so high and even if i was just trying to only talk to them they are just being an ass and think they are more then me.
3rd) I need to initiate a meeting with her during next week because i want to meet her before i go on her performance. Which if all goes well would give an opportunity for Date 2. but thats forecasting.
Any ideas on how to invite a girl that has very little free time out without seeming needy? This was a good opportunity since i am about to go in her town but i dont think it will happen so i need to figure out some other way so i wont look like i am going there only because of her.