Well, the most amateur guy on this site, back again. Yeah it's me.

I am kidding. Actually I need some help from helpful friends in here.

First of all, I am in the USA. (Cal) A few days ago when I was shopping I met one girl. She is salesgirl in sportswear shop. When I saw her, I feel something at the first sight. She is funny, helpful and always smiling person. Yes I know she must be like that in business life but when I see her in the shop, she always speaking with another employees like that. So, I think her behaviours are not drama. (We spoke about music and general issues a little bit and it was really nice talk. She looked like enjoy our talk.)

The main issue is I am new in USA and I wonder that how can I meet her? I mean, how can I learn her phone number or Facebook? She know I am from Europe. I don't know, ask for meet new international friends, is good idea or not. I really don't know. What should I do? Should I say my feelings immidiately? Or for first step, I just need to learn her phone number? Because I don't know American girls. I am afraid. If she say "I am married" or "I will call police, you annoyed me!" or something like that, what can I do?

Can you help me please?

learn her phone number, in USA girls are much more casual and open than in eastern Europe, so you dont have to worry about the social repercussions of a failed approach. The village elder and your priest wont find out.

error on the side of being overly aggressive and calibrate down as you get more experience with these crazy American broads. You are being way too timid.

detox75

Thank you so much. First of I will try to learn her phone number. Just how should I behave in order to get?

And one more question. Which way is better? Ask for phone number or Facebook? (In fact I prefer to learn phone number)

Phone # every time bro. Don't fret over 1 girl but yes, digits or nothing.

Ahahaha ok! How should I behave in order to get it?

Ideally you would have gone up to 20 other girls before this one so that when you approach this one you won't care that much about the interaction which she will sense (and probably like....a lot).

I have an experience enough. I just need an encourage.

Bluntly if you had enough experience you wouldn't be here asking the question. I encourage u to approach 20 girls this week, and make this girl #21. You asked how to get her interested & her #, this is how IMO.

I mean, i don't have enough time for do that. Actually i am looking long term.

As he said get her phone number (no facebook nonsense) and approach a lot of woman, it's work + skill that = success. It doesn't matter if you are this sincere guy who wants a long term relationship, you still need to approach, open, and date many woman before you can find your soulmate.

If you want to get good at it, you need to make time to practice then.

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I am exciting but I have to speak with her. Because if I don't speak, I know that I will be regret.

I will try to be cool for ask her phone number. I am new in US. Maybe I can ask her to show around somewhere to me.

And the most important aim is, if she say "I am married" what should I do? For sure I don't want to another employees to watch me also. (=