| Sunday night I went to the strip with my cousin. He has high social value esp. In these environments. Every strip club we went to, ladies would come to him and greet (usually the ones he already dealt with). We sat by the bar, which was a typical strip club bar (long oval shape with the stage in the middle). Seen a beautiful dancer I was attracted to. Solid 10, my favorite I seen that night. Me and my cousin threw money. We made eye contact and smiled. After her routine she came over to "say thanks". She came from my right side and went to my left and came around to kiss me on the cheek. I turned my head two my left to receive her kiss, miscalculated and planted one fat one right on her lips lol (it really was an accident, like right out of a corny chick flick lol)! She apologized, she was really embarrassed. I smiled asks said "it's ok" then focused my attention back on the table. She began to walk away. Midway she stopped and I looked at her. We made eye contact and smiled flirtatiously for about 4-5 seconds as she continued to slowly walk away.At that point I realized we had natural chemistry. She changed came back and stood east from be at the end of the bar. I'm about 7-8 feet away from her field of vision. We make eye contact again. She smiles and looks down. At that point I said to myself, "bro you already kissed her what's the worst that could happen? Make a move. 3 seconds...." I gave her the "come here" nod. She grabbed her bag of money and started walking over. I didn't watch her walk over to me. I turned and faced the stage, not to show neediness. At that point I was like a coach telling his player "this is it....and then anxiety hit. I didn't know what I would say. My mind began to run through everything I've learned through reading.....i went blank. I made a quick decision to rely on my strength, which was my laid back demeanor.
She shakes my hand:
Dancer: hi my name is (I don't remember)
Me: Mason......you remind me of someone I used to date.
Dancer: [smiled with a thrown off expression]
where you from?
Dancer: Cali. You're originally from New York?
Me: yea
(All while I'm making sure to keep my body facing the stage and force her to peck at me instead. Shes leaning in with every respond)
.....[thinkinnnngg come on...what to talk about I'm going blank]
Do you gamble?
Dancer: yea
Me: that's what I do I'm into casinos. I'm the real lucky lefty. what do you like to play?
Dancer: roulette
Me: that's cool
........(thinking: come on I haven't even started a cohesive conversation yet....think of something!)
Meanwhile these local celebrities where standing right behind me in the VIP section. Once they noticed her, they pulled her by the arm to seduce her. I paid it no mind and faced my head back to the stage. Not looking back once. If there's one thing I'm good at is staying cool.
While one of them was talking to her she began to rub my back.
Another one grabbed her for a dance. She continued to rub my back while she danced. I knew at that point she was all mine, I just had to close it but I still couldn't think of anything my mind was still drawing blanks. She came back to my side. She then leaned in and said "I gotta get back on stage" I replied "cool. Come Talk to me me when you get off"
Dancer: [smiles as she stairs into my eyes]
Me: ok? (Still smiling)
Dancer : [no answer just smiling still as she inches away as if she didn't want to leave]
I turn my head as to dismiss her before she walked off on her own.
My cousin was ready to go after being entertained by two dancers. I didn't get a second round. As soon as I got in the car my brain just released all the information I was trying to access when I needed it!! Lol "damn I should of said that...why didn't I say that....all the way home.
For my first time on the field after starting this pua journey I rate that a 6. I had no game, I attracted her luckily through physical contact,( the kiss lol) and my nonchalant mysteriousness women seem to be attracted to plus I ain't ugly lol. Thinking about it now, it's all in my body language and the way I express myself, not pushy or needy. I didn't even get to touch her, other than the hand shake lol (this might have worked in my favor).
I wanna go back and close. She was standing there waiting for me to stimulate her triggers and I failed yet still kept her intrigued. Do you guys think it's too late for her and move on to the next one ? This experience helped me to figure out the holes that needed to be filled so next time I'm stronger. I've been to plenty of strip clubs but after reading and THEN going was like taking the red pill.
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