Ex had a party at her place last night. I was invited but didnt have a ride so I couldnt go. She kept posting In our fb group saying that everyone should come, especially people in the bracket (which I was). Then during the party, I was one of the only people who didnt go, and she posted that everyone who didnt come was really missing out. She never does anything like this so im almost positive it was to get my attention. Then, after the party, she texted me saying "You're a bum for not coming." We've barely talked since we broke up, and this is the first time shes texted me since then. I didnt even know it was her at first because I deleted her number as part of no contact.

How should I respond to this? I became much less of an afc since we broke up and shes prob seen this. In terms of getting back with her, I would like to but wouldnt really care if I never saw her again.

So you wouldn't care if you never see her again. But you open a thread asking what you should reply?

You shouldn't reply anything since she didn't ask anything. Also reason of the breakup would help to give advice.