I'm not PUA, but i'm not afc. so i'm somewhere in the middle of it with a bad english speech, because i'm not english-man. so the question is: when i sit on the chair, in self-confident position by taking about 60-70% of table from my friend, i get NEGS from some of my friends? i just blow them away by saying something and not showing that i'm negged(because i'm not). But why some of them are doing this? i just can't understand, maybe i'm showing too much slef-confident or alpha male skills or smthg. i just don't know, i'm just funny, self-confident and i know that i'm powerfull at anything so noone can make me feel bad, but why i get NEGs from others? sometimes from my classmates(girls), ofcourse if i get one i just take it as a compliment, make something funny from it or resend with a little changes to the sender. But the question is, WHY?

is my english or question so hard to answer?

Weeell, it isn't for an A, bu its understandable. English isn't my mother tongue either.

This sitting: Thing is, it is not your style. It just doesn't seem "natural". It is hard to overcome, but look at your dressing, or your acting. It just isn't you man, your friends don't know you any other way. Try to take more place in other way, not from your friend. Try to sway on your chair, but beware, school chairs are properly destroyed by earlier generations, so watch your back (I mean behind, just don't fall).

Change your style slowly. Best thing is to change it over holidays. EVERYONE changes during holidays, so why shouldn't you?

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maybe just for them. now i'm at 11 so about 1.5years left. i started learning in the new class and from the beginning i was changing but slowly, so others treat me as i want. but some of my old-classmates still treat me as a "loser" boy, because ~3years ago i was just a simple loser and afc. nah, nevermind

Old classmates. Just sarge a hottie in their presence and they will stop.

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most of them know treat me as womenizer(playa), but still neg me sometimes. now much less than before i think because of that their negs doesn't affect me in any cases

Hey fake it till you make it. Walk in the hallway's with your head up looking at people dead in their eyes but not in a staring to "kill" you way, just like a smirk I'm better than you way lol. This could cause more hate and animosity towards you by guys, but you're not looking to get their interest right? Fuck those jealous assess still trying to call you a loser bro. I might give you bad advice here, but if you beat the crap out of one of the people who are calling you a loser, or even if you DON'T GIVE UP in the fight you will earn respect, and I can guarantee if you DON'T GIVE UP nobody will call you a loser again after they have heard what you have done. Just don't give up in the fight, you lose 100% respect once you give up in a fight. People who keep on fighting even when they are losing scare the shit out of most people, because winner's never give up and you can STAND tall in the end. This advice is coming from a violent background of mine, so I don't know if it will help you. Others can give you a more passive safe way to earn respect.

Getting neg'd by dudes in my eyes is a form of qualifying to you. It's my opinion and other people may think it's wrong, but that's how I see it. Like Jacked said, they're jealous of you.
This is their way of trying to bring you back to their level, don't buy into it and let it make you feel bad. They see something in you they wish they had and like I said before, they want to feel like you're on their level so they'll pick at you until they're satisfied that they got into your head. Keep your head up and stay confident.

~Muse

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i'd take that as a compliment- i'm sure your gettin way more numbers and chicks than they are, so who gives a shit about them. they obviously don't want you takin all the girls, don't worry about it man

practice makes perfect

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Are they close friends to you? Usually close friends tease each other, want to gain more value or something. They even do it unconsciously - maybe just to check you out? Test you?

When I don't want my best friends to f*ck with me( Ive used that lol), I just show them I can f*ck with them too. (neg tease, making laugh of them and so on). Then I say(private) look - stop - and don't challenge me `cuz I'll 'bury' (bury like - clean the floor with your ego). If we make a deal - it's a deal and we stop lowering each others value. If he disagrees well - make sure his ego hits the dirt in front of a large audience

GL, hope u've understood something from my post.