| You can view the friendzone in two ways.
1: A girl who doesn't want to fuck me
2: A girl that I have rapport with and i easily can isolate
What do you need to F-close a total stranger? Rapport, time, logistics, isolation. Walk up to a stranger you start at 0, you are are 0% of the way to fucking her.
With the friendzone you already have ticked half the boxes. You have rapport, she gives you her time, logistics might be sorted out, and you can easily isolate. So with a stranger you are at 0%, but in the friendzone you are at 70%.
The secret to getting out of the friendzone is merely finishing off the last 30%, you are usually just some tactful escalation away from completing the 100%.
If you take a step back and re-evaluate the situation, it doesn't seem so bad. There is a pretty good chance that she WANTS you to escalate. But you have this self defeating belief that it wont work or respond badly. Most guys end up in tge friendzone purely because of no escalation or inconsistent or badly executed escalation. If you escalate, escalate well and be persistant, you will probably get want you want. She WANTS somebody to turn her on, and you're already there.
This has worked for me. In the friendzone and i go home one day and calmly re-evaluate. What do I want, am I do the thongs I should be to achieve this goal, if not what should I do, if I dont change my behavior I will not progress, next time I see her im going to be a man and escalate like hell. _________________ It came to me in a drreeeaaammmm
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