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| matador of fun | PostPosted: Thu Nov 07, 2013 12:22 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot | Joined: Sun Jun 23, 2013 12:55 pm Posts: 363 | | guys here is a question for you guys....i have been with a natural quite a few times...he is fairly successful with girls..so he told me he talks about sex before he meets up..he would say shit like 'finger yourself..let me hear you moan.'..but i have realized it pushes a girl away when i talk about sex mostly... 'who do you think i am? a slut?' is a common response nd i they would then flakes..the number is notoriously higher in online game than day game...so what is the way to go about this issue? how do you set the man to woman frame without sounding like someone who just wants sex?
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| afcAL | PostPosted: Thu Nov 07, 2013 8:26 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Fri Dec 04, 2009 12:47 am Posts: 199 Location: United States | | Calibration is the key. First you establish without the shadow of a doubt that 1. You respect her and the choices she made and 2. it is not your intent to make her feel uncomfortable.
Then you can escalate. I can't tell you how many times I've seen guys jump into sexual topics way too soon and blow themselves out of a great interaction! Start of lightly and see how she responds. Go from there.
Al
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| matador of fun | PostPosted: Thu Nov 07, 2013 8:59 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot | Joined: Sun Jun 23, 2013 12:55 pm Posts: 363 | | thanks for the reply...but i guess the reason why he escalates way too sexually is because he has a strong frame...is like girls know he would settle for nothing less than sex,if the interaction does not lead to sex he just freezes them out....i can't be him though we have different styles...thanks for the reply.
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| matador of fun | PostPosted: Thu Nov 07, 2013 8:59 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot | Joined: Sun Jun 23, 2013 12:55 pm Posts: 363 | | thanks for the reply...but i guess the reason why he escalates way too sexually is because he has a strong frame...is like girls know he would settle for nothing less than sex,if the interaction does not lead to sex he just freezes them out....i can't be him though we have different styles...thanks for the reply.
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| skills360 | PostPosted: Thu Nov 07, 2013 9:06 pm | |
| Offline | | The name of the mothefucking game |  | Joined: Thu Apr 21, 2011 2:31 pm Posts: 4210 Website: http://www.dancefloorseduction.com Location: South Florida |
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