Hi guys, I have a few answers to how to play out a texting game, but I still cannot arrange in my head how to deal with no replies from a girl.

I think there basically three common scenarios, for which I kind of thought out how to behave, and want to verify whether that behaviour makes me look confident and non-needyk:

1. First text you sent to her after you git her number and she is silent

Not too sound too needy I woulf wait out a day or two, and then proceed with something more funny/aggressive e.g. "lloks like you have known me for a short while and I am already making you shy". Then after another no-reply I would (MAYBE) try last time after a couple of days and then I would delete the number

2. You exchange a couple of texts with a girl and then she stops replying

I would wait a bit and then send her something casual/interesting like "hey [nickname], looks like the town has been invaded by cyclists, almost got run over lol" or something funny. I would retry, if no further answer, with perhaps 2 or three more and then I would end with something more aggresive and then delete the number.

3. You exchange a couple of texts, you ask her, silence out OR she says OK to a date and then, when you reply with final dates she goes silent.

This is probably the most difficult as it is the most perplexing. I would probably wait a day or two and then retry, with a similar message to the first. If no reply, I would proceed as with number 2. from this stage, and retry if we rebuild regular convo.

What do you guys think?

1. sounds like you are colling her out on not texting back and sounds needy. If she doesnt answer your first text wait couple days throw her something funny and if she doesnt respond move on. Never write her something that sounds like "you didnt text me back".

2. i would go with just those two or three more .... no point to go agressive it will only show neediness. If she didnt respond on your last 3-4 text is a sign she doesnt want to talk to you.

3. With a flakes you can deal by going silent from your side and see if she writes back or if she doesnt after a week or so just text her and try to reschedule a date.

Always think about: she did receive a text. It would be a miracle if it somehow didnt appear on her phone . So she did see the text and decided not to reply. Being bussy is bullshit texting back takes like 10 sec. even if you are supper busy SPAM you can txt back later. So if she doesnt reply in a day or two she just lost her interest.

I have a simple solution: don't do texting game.
In my Anatomy class I met a really cute girl who I really wanted to go out with. One of my classmates had the same idea and was ahead of the eight ball by running his "text game" on her (I joined the class late). I chose to call her instead. Guess who she went out with?

Al

What you are doing wrong is calling her out (even if indirectly) for not replying to you. Don't do that. If you are going to do the 2 texts in a row thing, simply pretend the last text didn't even exist and just send again. Usually when girls don't respond you are dead in the water anyway, but calling them out for not responding or being needy etc takes your low % chance to zero % chance.

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