So I know this HB8 from teaching hip hop classes at the Uni, and ended up meeting her at a frat party a few weeks later. She knew me as the Tah tah tah guy, (how I tried to teach my choreography). We had a good laugh, and kept time with her at the party to every now and then. I mainly kept to the BP tables socialized with people, loud, and life of the party kind of aura. Beasted the tables for a while and played a game with her on my team. Didn't ask for her number, but she hit me up on facebook the next day, and I number and date closed her right after.

So my big issue right now is escalating over text. And not just escalating, but I'm not really sure how to gauge a conversation in general, whether I should put more or less in. Also I'm not sure if she's just being super friendly or flirty... So... If anyone can please just give me some input on whether I'm doing it right or wrong, and what I should do to fix it?


11-3
22:22 Me: So that guy on facebook is pretty awesome, right? =P
22:23 HB8: lmao that guy seems to be overconfident haha
22:26 Me: Perfection has it's flaws i guess! jk

11-4
15:31 Me: Knock knock =)
15:32 HB8: who's there
15:33 Me: D: It's me obviously! You forget who I am already? lol
15:35 HB8: me as in? sorry idk who u are
15:41 Me: Lol I dont want to give you a hint cause it'll just be embarrassing =P (this is referring to the Tah tah tah thing)
15:43 HB8: haha i think i know what u are gonna say :p
15:49 Me: =) you'll never hear me say that again oh lawd lol
15:58 HB8: no say it! it's all good ahah
15:59 Me: You're gonna have to make me haha meaning lots of liqour =P
16:00 HB8: what r u gonna say instead of that tho?
16:03 Me: Instead of what?
16:09 HB8: instead of what u usually say lmao
16:10 Me: Ohh lol I usually just do 8 counts cause im hot like that =P
16:18 HB8: pshh alright when is the next time ur teaching?
16:37 Me: Thursday maybe? I have to clean it up tomorrow haha
16:44 HB8: okkk
16:47 Me: Oh yeah we're still on for tmrw right?
17:52 HB8: What time will it be again? jus found out I have dance from 7-9
18:42 Me: ummm I was thinking 9:30ish

11-5
14:28 HB8: aww sorry (best friends name) cant come so it will be awkward if its only me
14:29 HB8: sorry for the late reply!!
14:33 Me: Lol its only awkward if you make it awkward =P but yeah another time?
14:34 HB8: yes definitely !!!!

20:10 Me: No class Thursday, so a few of the crew are gonna do thirsty thursday
20:31 HB8: Thirsty Thursday sounds fun

11-6
13:33 Me: Stop it!
13:36 HB8: lmao what? :p
13:38 Me: Stop thinking about me and smiling! See, you're doing it. Right.... Now. (not taking credit for this but This works really well as a texting opener!)
13:40 HB8:... if u write it that way lmao
13:45 Me: Can I take it that you're calling me smooth? =P
13:46 HB8: haha no!
13:54 Me: yeahhh I'm as smooth and sandpaper lol
13:59 HB8: lol haha you're funny :[ jk jk u are as smooth as sandpaper...
15:03 Me: Girl you must be as smooth as sandpaper, cause you fiiiine
15:11 HB8: wait., arent sandpapers rough? ...
15:21 Me: lolol levels of roughness
15:44 HB8: so you can't be smooth as sandpaper :p
15:51 Me: Lol I don't know if I should make fun of you for being derpy or call you cute =p
15:53 HB8: cute works lmfao
16:24 Me: Sure Lmao


So yeah critique would be great! Thanks guys!

get her on the phone.. man shit.

Hey man going good so far, but this type of conversation gets boring really quickly probably even more so for her.
What i try to do if i get in a situation like this would be to text her with a purpose, sure the cutsie stuff is fine but keep it brief with her and just as you even begin to think this has been going on for just maybe a bit too long, freeze out. just stop and then ask her a question which made you text her in the first place, e.g. going our for coffee, meeting up etc.

if possible try and make her the last one to text you, this makes her seem like she was the one initiating the chat and if you do it successfully, will keep her coming back for more

pups

My thoughts exactly

UPDATE://

got her to go out with me and a few friends to my place for thirsty Thursday, ended up getting in a lot of Kino and ended the night with a kiss close after taking her back to her place. Whoop Whoop!

edit://

Sorry slightly inebriated during this post! forgot to mention that I ended up grabbing her bracelet from her and keeping it.

Keep us updated good job brotha!!