Kino, is a MUST DO!

You can talk a good game and have great body language, but without kino, you ain't getting laid Bro.

Using Kino does not mean dive in and grab the 'goods'. Kino simply “Physical escalation.”

If you’re already established yourself as the type of friendly guy that touches everyone naturally already, it’s no big deal to touch a woman you've just met. It’s natural. There’s nothing wrong with giving a quick touch on the arm or hand, giving a handshake or high five to ANYONE you've just met. In fact, it makes things a lot more lively and fun if you do.

In fact it will likely increase DHV among her friends.


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The above can work, but be careful. Being affectionate with everyone can case THREE problems:

1. You can be seen as a "very friendly guy"
2. It will cause you to have to do more to show genuine interest towards any one particular girl because they will assume you're just a friendly guy and you're like that to everyone.
3. You having to do more with a particular girl to show her that she's the one could put you in the friendzone (while you treating the one you like no differently from the rest in her mind will make her assume you aren't interested).
4. They will think you are a player (which could either help or backfire).

I learned a lot of KINO stuff and thought I was getting somewhere, only to discover that it confused a bunch of girls (or people in general). Some thought I was a player. Some thought I was just "a very friendly dude" (which isn't necessarily good). Some girls were naturally affectionate because of their culture, so the bar for coming across as "flirty / sexual" was much higher than normal and the regular touching (even borderline to making out) all didn't mean anything. Then, of course, when you are affectionate with everyone, you must do more than you already do with any woman you're actually trying to get or else she will just assume she's nothing more to you than anyone else. Having to do this could b both good or bad....


I'm not saying KINO is bad. It's far, FAR far better than doing no touching at all. I'm just showing you some things to consider and be careful of while KINO'ing. It's not just as simple as learning to touch everyone, like I thought it was before I mastered the art of it. It's ok to overdo it in practice, but once you feel you've gotten it down, ease off and slow down a bit and save it mainly for the girls that really matter (especially if you're in a setting where you and a bunch of the same girls frequently occupy). Once word gets around that you treat everyone the same, yo become seen as the player or the very friendly guy (or sometimes someone who MIGHT be gay).