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While I agree that you have a point in your concept, there's no need for that hostility. There's a lot of humble guys here that just want to learn. They don't know HOW to develop into a more confident and successful person, they already know that they want/need to change. The fact that they need to change isn't lost on them so there really isn't anything good going to come out of pointing that out by shit talking them, the whole purpose of the seduction community is to support the guys who want to change and try to teach them HOW.....that's where the value is.
^Look folks. Habitual complainer and whiner. You've done this so much all your life you do not realize how much of an asshole you are.
The problem with whiny little bitches is that everything in the World feels like an insult to them... so they complain, whine, and do a whole lot of blaming others. And yep, since they must adhere to their principles for civility, they sugar coat their rants with words that seem productive, constructive, and supportive. Hey Cloud7, ever wonder why the men around you treat you like an asshole? It's because you are one. Ever wonder why you repel women? Because you are a whiny little bitch. So there is in fact a circular pattern to this madness. You do your act because you get treated like an asshole and others treat you like an asshole because you do your act... and it never ends. The kicker is that your solution in real life is most likely what you are doing here. You are asking others to stop their cycle. This is like asking others to stop pinching their nose after you fart in their face. It's like asking them stop calling you a circus geek while you are on standing on a circus stage, biting off a chicken's head; this is idiocy.
What point are you referring to? What is the concept that you agree with? What the fuck are you ranting about? Do you really need to learn "HOW" to stop complaining? Do you need a strategy for this? Must you create a journal to remind yourself at each 12pm, "Don't complain at lunch time" simply to stop complaining?
How much clearer do you want it? This isn't some cryptic message nor does it take any particular talent:
1. Don't whine.
2. Don't complain.
3. Don't moan.
4. Don't bitch.
5. Don't make excuses.
If ^this message is an insult, how the hell do you manage when somebody really insults you? If you can't do ^these things, then what can you possibly do?
And to highlight hostility vs. constructive criticism and recommendation... What I wrote, "YOU are an asshole" = hostility. What the OP wrote, "Men these days..." = is a criticism of a vague group.
Lol at Kasabi. You legendary wisdom man, you. Just roaring with utter manliness. Can't you feel it guys? I can. Anyways. In a way, Kasabi is 100% right. Men don't whine, moan, bitch, make excuses.
If you are a man and you claim your throne of being a man, you simply don't tell other men to man the fuck up. That is too vague. In fact that's over compensation. Instead they show them what they can truly be capable of by living a life of example. That's why some of the greatest men are fathers. They have been admired by their sons and have been shown the true way to teach a life.
But then calling out a guy to be an asshole doesn't make you a man either. It's too petty. Life is about bigger and better things. Men don't have time to call each other out in such a petty manner. So, what's the bigger picture here Kasabi? What are you trying to teach men? Have you lost your ability to share your wisdom? Because I remember a day when you had alot of great knowledge and you were quite humble.
And yes, men are humble. It's not a secret. And to call a guy out like that. Also men contradict each other and make up their own rules as they go along. So I'll say this. To assume you know someone to be an asshole all their lives. On the means of the internet. What are we really playing at. Where's the bigger picture Kasabi? Do you want to go back to wisdom. To your glory days in which most people on this forum respected you and your valuable advice, which will never be erased from your temporary pettiness. But I think you have bigger and better things to talk about on your plate than just calling guys an asshole.