So just the other day i started texting this girl that is in two of my classes in highschool, (shes a hb9 and she is in a A.P. class O.O)
i have hung out with her twice over lunch and because of that people started cockblockng me and shit or were just plain old suprised ( i was a total afc back in junior high) and i finally remembered (i forgot not because i didnt have the balls) to ask her for her number one day and she gave it to me, i must have entered in the number in wrong cus i texted someone else, then i talked to her again and corrected my contact (the number was only one number off so i know it was my fault not her giving a different one on purpose)
but after that i started gaming her on the phone (still talked to her in person but dont really have much chance to.) and this was my conversation
Me: Heyy did i get the right number now?
hb: Yep
me: Alright! How was your day! (wasnt checking my phone so i replied after 50min)
hb: good, you? (she replied in 3 min but i was getting worried cus of the single word texts)
me:It was great! what other classes do you have other than inn tech and science? (i replied immediately to reward her with doing the same thing)
hb:(after 20 min) Cos ^^ and social (cos is cosmetology which is a makeup class for girls, and what is ^^?)
me:Nice! what are you learning in social?
her: Well today we watched a movie on natives being taken to residential schools cause we had a sub! Haha
her: sorry i gtg for soccer! ttyl (i was worried and relieved at the same time, she gave me 2 for one (althrough i didnt reply after that) and idk why all of a sudden she gave such a long text as compared to the other ones

and after 2 days later i tried to start up another conversation but she never replied back, i think thats to punish me for not replying or soemthing i dont know

and in another 3 days (today) i started texting her again
me 12:23pm: Do you have a job?
hb 12:31pm: nope (again?!?!?!? really with the one words!?!??!?!)
me 12:45pm: I hate having a job :/ but if i dont get one ill be soooooo broke Haha :p (just like you )
^(that last set of bracets was acctually in the text, i texted that as a inside joke hoping she would remember)
but she hasnt replied yet and its been a while, im not worried but im about to start my shift. ill reply to this thread after im done with my thread and tell you or not if shes replied or not, in the meant time can you please give me some tips or more questions?

if i were in your shoes because she replying with one words, ask her if she wants to hang out rather than texting all the time, for one texting can get boring if you cant find anything to talk about, the next you should do is tell her ask her open ended questions, Ask her about her life, like school, activities.. stuff like that!

You really have no idea how this texting thing works. Your texts are boring. And the girl is clearly bored and that's why she doesn't reply. "How was your day?" What? If she is a hot girl, how many guys do you think are asking this very same question? It's BORING. Also, the conversations go nowhere. The texts doesn't provoke any emotions, doesn't even banter, they are just casual talk. In fact they're so casual that it's weird, I have more fun texts with my mom. They also don't help the close. I guess you want to invite her over sometime. Now I don't want to be so harsh, sorry, it just had to be said, I could break down every single text you sent and point out the reasons one by one why all of them fails. At first I didn't want to, but it's so educational that perhaps it will help other members(and you) not to commit these typical mistakes again.
Yeah this is not SO bad, but it could be a lot better. It would turn out anyway so why start the convo with this question? Well it could have been transitioned later so this is not yet fatal...
As I have said earlier and I can not emphasize this enough. This must be by far the most asked questions by avarage guys by text and on facebook.
Wow another question. And the point of it is... yeah. nothing. boring school topic question. Do you really care about this, or just can't come up with anything better?
Yay, another boring question. I'm actually convinced that this girl liked you at first, or she must be the sweetest and most patient woman ever to keep replying to this. And what's with all these smilies? Are you trying to communicate you're stoned, or why are you using them all the time? It's weak. Use smilies when you really mean them. Otherwise they just make your text look way too friendly.
You have to be kidding me. And what kind of answer were you expecting? Apparently you give her no other option than to reply with one word answers. "Do you have a job?" It's a single closed question with only two options, Yes, or No. Did you expect her to start describing what is she doing, or what is her dream job? Because then you should have asked that. Not that it would help the interaction but those at least wouldn't get one word answers...
This has to be nominated to some "worst texts of all time" contest. Really. Are you trying to attract this girl, or push her away? Because if it's the latter then you're doing a really great job. You just stated that you don't like working so you're not too fulfilled with your life. And then you give her this nonsense humour, and call her broke. It's just not funny, it's embarassing.

Look. The purpose of texting can be basically two things:

1) Get a Day2. In this case you don't fool around with "How was your day?" More like "What are you doing on the weekend? I'm free on Friday evening." Texts should be this simple and short however the flake rates are still pretty high and that's why I don't like using texts this way. If I want to arrange a meeting I'll just CALL. More simple, more effective with time, no need to fool around with "she waited 20 mins with the answer so I'll wait at least 21" and no need to ask stupid questions about her day and discuss things that can be discussed in person where any possible good vibe is not killed by waiting for hours for a single reply.

2) Help sexual escalation. Well this won't work because if you text like this I can tell that your frame is not sexual at all. But if it were you'd be able to use texts to tease women. "Get the hell out of my head! You entered my dream and it was nasty" and then when she replies, proceed with describing very sexual fantasy in vivid details making sure she knows what's going to happen when you two meet.

And I have some other tips for you. You clearly don't have game, and just looking at the texts it's clear that not only the practise but the theory is missing too. So I suggest you read up on some material either here on the forums, or else and go out. Start practising and leave texts behind. Just call. It's more ballsy, and it's harder to fuck up because you can hang up with whatever reason any time the convo is getting dead. Unlike with texts where it just simply "stops". Use your brain... Good Luck!

Peace,

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You don't need to try so hard when you're texting.
Texting is just a fill time, alot of people underestimate texting while forgetting that women like attention and find comfort in communication in time.
It's a double edged sword, if you're good at texting you'll get bonuses, if you're bad at it she'll pretty much get bored of you.

Don't take texting seriously it's a time to be cute, witty, flirtatious, and learn about the other person. So have fun with it, enjoy it.
Also, believe it or not but not alot of guys are good at texting, if you can just be more stimulating than the flock of other guys asking 'how is your day going' you'll be golden.

Get some online sarging done on your free time, don't focus on picking up just being keeping conversation and being fun to talk to.
It's the age of technology so trust me this is a valuable trait to have. Good luck

Drop the Messages lift the Phone, be man and call her ass up..

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Read some of pumpingtons text game and use some of it. You fucked this because you was boring. Show her you're a man with some big ass balls and text her some crazy shit. You've got nothing to lose anyway. Whether shes at your college or whatever is irrelevant too. Just do it.

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I do know 1 thing though, bitches they come they go

I agree w/ the boys, ur texts are really boring, you need to ENGAGE her, you failed to do so.. don't text Qs expecting answers - text more so statements expecting comments on them, it'll make u sound bolder, confident, which is what women like.

Instead of "how's your day" be like "I heard you're having the coolest day ever so far! Can I join the fun?" if she is she will be surprised and will answer you playfully, if not she'll say something negative about it and there is your chance to make her feel like you're "listening" - get what I mean??