Hi all,

Completely new to the PUA community but figured I'd love to get involved because I'm absolutely addicted to playing women since coming out of a two year relationship I got in at the age of 18.

Since that its all been about gaining some confidence and concentrating on my appearance, learning the game again etc and its gone pretty well.

I'm not a spotty virgin I'm a pretty outgoing person in a large social group and like to think i do well for myself but i want to step it up to the next level now. Any advice or useful info with relation to the above would be great however I could do with some advice on my current project;

Met a girl through a mate in a club and she actually came up to me and told me i was 'fit for a ginger lad' (im not actually that ginger btw) which was obviously an ioi.

The following week i kised her in the same club and the next day i was told she was moving away so i messaged her on facebook we had a bit of a chat and because i figured i had nothing to lose i asked her to come round mine one night to which she politley pied / said she would have done but she was away at her dads untill she left. Anyway she decided last minute not to move away.

We met her and some friends out in town the following weekend and I just struggled to talk to her, she is a good 8/10 maybe a 9 so this might be why im struggling, i isolated her and took her to the bar to get her a drink where i kissed her again but couldnt find my words afterwards and i know ill probably only have one more chance to take her home and bang her before she loses interest she loses interest quickly according to my pal who knows her. How do i get banter going with her and manage to actually hold down a decent convo yet transition it to her being in a cab with me on the way home haha? I dont normally struggle too much in situations like this but this girl almost indtimidates me and makes me feel like a shy child haha.

I've been going through the same thing. I feel like my friend is teasing me with his girlfriend's friend. Introducing us, getting us to hangout, but cockblocking me the WHOLE FUCKING TIME! I had only managed to Isolate her once and he come strolling through. It his Gf's friend. I dont understand why he's helping me just to hinder me. I would try the five question game. or the cube game, just to liven it up, let her know how fun you are.

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"Life is what happens while you're busy making other plans."

I see haha, thing is a gfs friend is always a bit of a forbidden fruit so he's probably a little but jealous seeing as he knows he'd never be able to bang her (I can relate to this). You need to try and find an opportunity to isolate her but perhaps when there's a bigger group out so there will be less focus on you and her. Where can I find the 5 question or I've cube game pal?

There games that I learned from style's youtube videos. The five question game you got to know how to act like you've been beaten or it wont work, and its alot funner if you bet, like a drink or a smoke, or whatever, I've used it to kiss close, get a first date etc. etc.. It may be the Cab ride home you're looking for. But both of those have always worked and Impressed.

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"Life is what happens while you're busy making other plans."

Decent I will have a look then cheers pal.

Let me know how that works for you then, eh?

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"Life is what happens while you're busy making other plans."

Will do man. Is everyone on here from the US? I'm from the UK and feel some of the techniques I have to slightly adapt when using simply because of the culture difference. Let me know how you get on with your mates gfs friend

Will do. I am from Ohio. I wish I lived in the UK.

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"Life is what happens while you're busy making other plans."