Quote:
What is she like around you? Does she treat other guys similarly? If she does flirt with guys does she pay special attention to you and go out of her way to touch you more so than she would others or flirt with you differently?
Flirting is often a defence mechanism. They flirt around to shroud their interest in a person so that if they're caught out they can quickly take it back and act as if they do it with everyone for fear of rejection or a less than desirable outcome. You have to be careful because most women who flirt so openly and do so with a lot of people end up having a lot of problems and still need a lot of attention.
Also, have you been around her alone outside of college yet? Like have you asked her to hang out with just the two of you?
I haven't seen her interaction with many other guys but with the ones I have seen yeah she kinda does act the same way to other guys (like flirty) which makes me think she's just seeking attention. Also, I haven't been around her for a prolonged period of time. Im a highschool junior not in college so there are 8 periods stacked in a day so hanging out after class is kinda hard, unless I see her after 8th period, because we have to go to the next class, so basically no I have not been alone with her for a long period of time (or even an hour ish.)
I figure she might just be seeking attention but I'll never know unless I find out (and even if she does reject me, it's not a huge deal.)
I'll probably see her inbetween one of my classes tomorrow so I'll just ask her if she wants to hang out instead of going to class (I have a substitute tomorrow in that class anyway, so no lectures on cutting please) and then hang out in the library or a pizza place nearby or something.