So this girl i like, She knows i like her and well about a week back she told me she got out of a relationship about 7 years a while a go and doesnt want to date anyone for a while, So I said that's cool I understood, cause i just got out a relationship about 3 weeks ago. But tonight during our conversation she tell mes after she got finish with the gym well this was thru text but this is what she said

her: now i gotta get ready for a date!
her: well dinner
me: oh thats lucky guy..
her : hahaha
Me: saying that 5 years sure went by fast ... anyways have fun
her : haha ohh its juussst dinner...

like wtf ..

She just randomly said that? Sounds like a shit test dude. She could be bullshitting and trying to get your attention. I wouldn't be surprised if she turned around and said the date was either good but she doesn't think she'll be seeing the guy again or she says the date was terrible.

Next time you see her flirt with her, use kino and escalate. See how she reacts.

what is kino ? hahah sorry im new here

In my opinion it sounds as if she was trying to see what you would say, how you would react, and maybe with a jealous comment, wasn't the best reply but, I don't think you're on the friendzone just because of that. If it was true however, it's the weak man who gives up just because of a little competence, if you want a cute girl, oh man, you'll have to compete, so be prepared for it, because it's a fact! Instead, show her you're the best she can have.

Good luck.

well what I had in mind the next time I see her, im going to just pretend like she never told me about it or anything do you think thats the route or do you have any suggestions ?

Kino: http://www.pualingo.com/pua-definitions ... tics-kino/

You should know this.

Honestly, you can just ignore it or try pry to see how it went. She'll get a kick out of you asking. If you ask she'll know you're interested but again it will show you're interested so it's a double edged sword. Given the fact that you know her and she might be flirting with you I wouldn't say it's a bad thing to enquire about it in a passive manner. It's different rules given the fact that you already know her and have some rapport with her.

If you ask about it just be passive about it or use it to fill a silence. "Oh, how was your date the other day?" Keep a look out for how she reacts then drop it completely when she answers, don't ask any follow up questions. Then move on and use kino on her.

Honestly, you don't seem to know a lot about PU so I don't think using any techniques would be a good idea as you wouldn't know how to effectively use them. Just stick to what you're comfortable with and try read her body language(Look up a quick guide but don't get too carried away in the meanings).

Things to look for:

1. She wants to be around you all the time.
2. She sits beside you, looks for you.
3. She constantly looks towards you and can't help herself.
4. When you talk to another woman she gets bothered.
5. She wants your attention all the time.
6. She looks for excuses to touch to you.
7. She will reach out in front of you or do things in view of you to get your attention(Could be something as simple as touching a monitor that's right beside you without needing to).
8. She smiles a lot around you.

The most important would be 1., 3. and 8. The rest aren't as important but proximity(1), looking at you all the time(3) and smiling/being happy around you(8) are the most important. If she does all three of those chances are she's interested in you. 6. Can be important but not a lot of people will do that if they're shy and most who do tend to be serial flirts.

If she's doing those three things she likes you. If she tells you she's not interest in anything right now she probably isn't but that doesn't mean she doesn't feel that way.

Kino escalation is basically just touching her. Touching a woman's arm, hip, or face are what count as "flirtatious" contact.

I've been in long term relationships. It's emotionally difficult to recover from them. Try to see things from her perspective. She obviously is still recovering, but she wants to see if you can compare to her last guy. Obviously her last guy had some level of devotion towards her (I mean, 7 years, fuck that's long). Hence what she wants is someone who's persistent. Unless she flat out rejected you, she's probably trying to gauge her feelings for you.

But, of course, show some aggression. She's probably used to dudes like you (beta males) hitting her up. Use some kino escalation and flirt with her.

OR, you can use my technique:

Just go in for the kiss.

She will either kiss you (Nice) or she'll turn her head and you'll get cheek (Gay). Then pull back and say, "I just wanted to clear up where our relationship stands."

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And this is why you dont change your game when woman say shit like this.