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I hooked up with this girl that I hadn't seen in years. It went great. In person I was crushing it. She told me she was going out of town but she really wanted to hook up again when she was back - not date, mind you, just have sex. great.
She is a low-key texter, definitely knows what she's doing, usually only texting a word or two at a time, usually not responding for a while, but once I asked her out to a show and she said "I won't be back in town yet, but you should ask my friend Jen, she'll probably fuck you."
I had no idea what to say to that. I couldn't figure out her angle, whether she was fucking with me or testing me or what. I just didn't text her back for about a week. When I did start texting her back, she wasn't texting me back. So i waited a day and texted again, just some fun stuff about what i was doing. I sent a bunch of texts, sort of just narrating the surroundings of where i was. I thought it was fun. When she didn't text back again I said "you used to be a fun txt budy. disappointing."
I thought it would be fun and high-status but i didn't realize that i really sounded desperate. She did respond to that - in a half-defensive way. we texted like 2 more times that day, her not saying much. I decided I wouldn't contact her again for a while. It's been over 2 weeks. She hasn't contacted me. Did I ruin this one? Or is there a chance to revive it? How do I get things back in my court?
Well that is interesting. Sounds like ruined it a bit. You were definitely needy. Maybe wait a little more and try to revive just with a "hey stranger, how've you been?" or, I guess it is halloween ... use that. But if she doesn't responded; eh, not sure. Do you ever run into her in person? That might be your best option if possible.
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